Last night I dreamed that my husband & I were going to see a movie.About 10 minutes into the movie it stopped & we thought there was a problem with the power.Apparently it was something bigger because no one was being allowed to leave -government orders.Hurricane Katrina & people being stuck in the Superdome came to mind in the dream.We saw some people leaving, so I convinced my husband we should leave too.We got in the car & I said,"We should go straight home."However, my husband decided we should stop to have the oil checked.The guy behind the counter in the auto place said he would have to tow our car back to the theater & ask if we were supposed to leave before he worked on it.I didn't know how he knew who we were& I got agitated while he was gone. I was thinking, If only we had gone straight home! Right after thinking that I saw a lady we know (who is old enough to be my husband's mother - she is someone my husband used to confide in from before we began dating.
2006-09-20 11:40:07 · 9 answers · asked by SuzieQ92 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I knew she had hard feelings toward me, but she spoke to me, so I was going to speak to her, but I just started crying because of the mess we were in.
One detail I forgot earlier......while on the way home before we stopped at the auto place, I called my dad and told him what had happened and that we left the theater because other people were. I asked him (he is in law enforcement) if he thought our reasoning for leaving (because others were) would hold up in court. He didn't think so and he didn't offer any encouragement. I hung up the phone from talking to him very worried that we were going to be in trouble.
2006-09-20 11:42:45 · update #1
I am no expert with dreams. All I know is that a dream is your subconscious telling you something and usually dreams are very odd. If they were more clear we would understand them more easily. Looking into the meaning of dreams, I believe is a way we get to know ourselves better.
I am only guessing, but maybe you life is being dictated by what others want and not what you want. I say this because you wanted to leave the theatre, but your husband decided to get the oil checked. Then the guy said he needed to tow your car back to the theatre....there is another person making a decision for you.
You wanted to go straight home, yet two people prevented you from doing what you wanted to do. I would say you feel a bit defenseless in your marriage where you dont think your opinions or needs mean very much.
The image of this older woman who your husband used to confide in seems to sum it all up. Your husband used to confide in someone, but maybe he doesnt confide in you. Maybe you are needing to have more power in your relationship. Maybe you are being downtrodden a little bit in your relationship and you need it to be more equal, eg, being listened to, being confided in. You just want to be your husbands equal, and probably you are feeling that you are not.
Thats my best uneducated guess. I do know, that it is your subconscious telling you something.....and only you can decide what it is that you are needing...You are needing something because to remember a dream so vividly means something is wrong.
Just read the bit about your father. Yep, I think you are a woman who has never really been supported. Your ideas, in the eyes of the people who are and have been most important in your life have never really taken you and your ideas seriously. You are probably wanting to assert your rights and make people listen to you. The fact is that you wanted to go home because of the threat of the hurricane means your ideas are very sensible and you should be listened to...You are probably a very frustrated person....You need to believe in yourself. You need to be assertive and when people wont listen to you doesnt mean to say they are right. You just have to learn to believe in yourself.
I could be 100 percent off the mark, but I like to delve into things like this...I have learnt a lot about myself by trying to interpret my own dreams, and may I say I have become a stronger person for it.
2006-09-20 11:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a dream of anxiety and about decision making along with some trust issue with love ones.
Seeing a movie = your daily activities
Getting oil checked = anxiety behavior from you, (but projected to your hubby)
Movie stopped/Katrina or disaster strikes = Problems, difficulties in life.
Your dream is dealing with heavy anxiety of yours. The dream indicates how you deal with situation like disaster. Basically, you hesitate into making your own decision and it reflects in your dream. There is also some trust issue involved about you and your husband., and your father as well. You seem to be lost in making decision because you are not confident enough in many ways. Maybe in reality, you are like that too. By projecting this incident, subconsciously you reflect your personalities in general.
p.s. I just checked back and didn't realize you are the person I answered question before. Now that I know it is you, more or less I know it is decision making and some trust issue (from your past dreams) Hey, if you put all dreams together, they seem to make sense about your personalities because they are so related!
2006-09-20 13:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're afraid something is not working in your life, and you're right.
In order to fix the problem, you want to take some kind of direct action. This action that you want to take is "forbidden" by the authorities around you (authorities could be family, friends, culture, church). But the authorities are wrong, and you will be in danger if you don't take this action.
Your husband is agreeable to taking action with you, but there are a few details that he wants to take care of before you act. These details almost prevent you from escaping the danger, but you can still act and escape.
Just a guess - who knows . . .
2006-09-20 11:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most dreams are based on the things we watched or thought about before we went to sleep. Hurricane Katrina news has been big lately on all TV networks. Perhaps that is the reason for your dream.
2006-09-20 12:33:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kitty L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu have a combo of things going on - you are worried about the people in the south - and concerned that it could happen to you. jAs for the person you saw a thte end of your dream - it was probably just someone you were thinking of.
2006-09-20 11:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by Been there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want your hubby to be more of a prorector to you..You are worried that he will let you down in anemergency..You feel like he still wants his "mommy' you see him as a mommy's boy. You love him you are just waiting for him to be all that you expect him to be.
2006-09-20 11:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are feeling resentful of your husband for not taking command of different situations and you're not sure if you can trust his judgment which is causing you stress.
You also are feeling that he feels closer to his mother or he listens more to her opinion than to yours and again this is giving you grief.
2006-09-20 11:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by prettymama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your going to have a WHIRLWIND romance with your local mechanic while your hubby seduces the other woman in the cinema .
watch it
2006-09-20 11:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Kinda weird, but most dreams are............. but I don't know what it means, sorry
2006-09-20 11:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by Charlotte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋