hi. im just interested - as i consider myself a kind/genuine/reliable guy, who wouldnt hurt a fly, who is easy going but kinda shy and i dont seem to be that successful with women (well successful full stop really) i consider myself ok/good looking. i just wondered what women look for in blokes. truthful answers please - as you always tend to say kind caring etc, but i reality i think this is bull sh*t tbh. some of the prettiest women seem to be going out with the ugliest, unkind and untrustworthy men. does this really turn women on? any insight is appreciated as it may help me and i genuinely find it an interesting subject .
2006-09-20 11:36:10 · 17 answers · asked by @@@Marty@@@ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The way u described yourself is my perfect man..I didnt think he existed..I thought men were all sneaky and unreliable.
2006-09-20 14:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What I look for in blokes when Im discuss this with friends is tall, brown eyes, funny, sexy , nice ***, nice smile, lovely eyes,intelligent, sensitivity, aggressiveness, interesting, solvent, independent, shared interests, different interests, horny, sassy, feisty, brave, protective-----oh **** I am talking about me (apart from the tall bit that is). I like people who interest me. However, the men I have been involved with are all so diffferent. Humour will take you a long way. I want a bloke who can hold his own (OOO ERR!) you know what I mean. Just be yourself mister - no point in trying to impress in any false way. We girlies like men in all shapes and sizes. Sincerity and self belief in yourself will do it babe. Go out and get her. Watch "The Full Monty" film for confirmation of sexual attraction if that is really the sentiment behind this question. You rock !
2006-09-20 19:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First and foremost its confidence, if you have the confidence in yourself to chat to a woman and ask her out then you are half way there!
Personally I prefer large bald men, they need to be fairly well educated and fun. A good sense of humour is a must.
Nearly everyone is kind and caring in their own way so that covers a lot of ground.
Be more confident in yourself and stop wondering about attractive women with ugly men - start looking at single women and maybe you'll find your soul mate!!
2006-09-20 20:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by libbyft 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i know that some women just make the wrong choices but something that i want to ask you is if some women on here do say that they liek the mean guy does that mean that your will change...i say be your self and all will come in due time...work on you and be comfortable with it and that is SO F**KING SEXY trust me...thats the kinda man i got who is sure and comforable with him and can take care of him self...if you do see women with dirt guys those are just between men till they get to the good ones...**** happens...good luck and just to let you know you sound like a good guy already...but a lil unsure of your self...
2006-09-20 18:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by mytedominatrix 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I want to find someone who can be my best friend. I have tried going out with people that are oposites and that didn't work. Someone that does the same outdoor type things, same music, someone I can discuss a book with. Looks aren't a big deal but there must be that attraction.
2006-09-20 18:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by kerry9477 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
they probly have different taste or are trying to make someone jelous. but trust me, girls really like nice guys. I mean guys who are rough and might be mean are fun but there not the kind of guys that you bring home to the parents. You WILL find a girl who like you! just keep smiling and be confident. GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-20 18:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by Biscuit 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In every country men always get more offers once they are married and in a stable relationship. Women then see them as a good catch and want them but nobody realises that that is potentially unstabilising.
My husband is the haapiest man I know and he has had many offers. WE laugh about it but its not nice meeting women you know have seriously offered themselves to your husband.
So its a catch 22 for you. You have to marry to bee attractive, and you have to be attractive to marry.
Why not get your sister to introduce you to good girls. That is how we do things in Africa. I vet girls for my brothers.
2006-09-20 20:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by Mai C 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
im not gonna chat s**t,i dont like good boys,dont like guys to buy me everything,dont like guys who are to in my face (keep ringing) but then i dont like guys who dont ring at all as that pisses me off,i am a nightmare as i like bad boys(rough looking men)
i think to get a bit more success with women you need to get a bit more confidence rather than being shy as women love to talk and if you can be yourself then it will make you more appealing,you sound like a nice person so get out there and enjoy yourself
2006-09-21 17:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by sam* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi, here's what i think . . . .
-interesting to talk to
-interested in the girl as well as just in themselves, ie. ask questions
-willing to go out and do things socially
-not too over the top with wanting to be with the girl 24/7 - sometimes less is more etc!
-do random romantic gestures like buy flowers for now reason, say nice things, etc
be willing to help out round the house/with the kids/pets etc.
-sometimes be willing to give things up for them, but in return they should be prepared to sometimes give things up for you!!!
you will find someone - you sound nice!
2006-09-20 18:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by myfairladyisasleep 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YOU WANT THE TRUTH! ILL GIVE YOU THE TRUTH! Truth is if a guy is brave enough to ask us out .:*in person*:. most likely we say yes. Thats just it. You like somone you ask her. We dont like to ask, cuz were more likey of being rejected. If your the guy you say you are and you ask, any girl in there right mind will say yes. :D good luck
2006-09-20 18:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by guavaray 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know you said that it is bs but i like guys that are nice, sweet, cute, honest. Basically a good person. I dont see the point when girls go for the bad and mean cuz they will just get hurt.
2006-09-20 18:40:37 · answer #11 · answered by Pigs Rule Adimt It!!! 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋