as many times that i have comfronted him about it, it seems to always end up in and argument and frankly im tired of arguing with him about it, i just cant leave him like that and not help him i want to help him so bad that it just hurts me more. What do i have left to do? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!
2006-09-20 11:02:33 · 8 answers · asked by Isa L 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
OH that's what you're talking about! Leave his ***...you should have better things to do than worry about a loser...I would hope?
2006-09-20 11:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing I would do if the person I am involved with is "spooning" is drill holes in all the cheap spoons in the house and hide secure all others in a lock-box.
2006-09-20 19:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God bless you for wanting to help. You cannot "help" him to quit the drugs. He is the only one who can do it. Get yourself to an Al Anon meeting as quickly as possible. They will explain the disease and what you can do. In brief, don't argue with him, yell at him,or explain anything. He KNOWS all that and has decided to continue using. Do not cover for him, give him money or otherwise enable or help him in his disease in any way.
2006-09-20 18:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suggest a rehabilitation center for starters-no one says you have to leave him but you DO -have to stop enabling him-I have been one both sides of this fence and Know where you AND him are coming from-ask hjis family(if any)to help you with an intervention-go to a clergyman-local law enforcement(if needed)-call a drug abuse hotline etc...
2006-09-20 18:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by traceyhinton1970 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to help him is to leave him. start going to alanon meetings. by staying with him you are just being an enabler and a co-dependent
2006-09-20 18:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing else you can do. If he doesn't want help you can't force it on him. You have two choices, shut up and deal with it or leave him.
2006-09-20 18:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try this every morning for breakfast when you eat cornflakes
and you have milk on your spoon heat it up........it will annoy the crap out of him....and do not give up doing it until he gives up doing too..... IT WILL WORK
been proven
2006-09-20 18:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by GASTON 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who are you talking about?
2006-09-20 18:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋