Iam a very cute girl i love to have fun i just cant seem to find the right guy all the guys i have talk to are in relationships or they just want sex i have had 2 serious relationships so far iam very outgoing and and smart guys come up to me all the time but they just want to be friends iam going to college this year and i want a man beside me sometimes i hate on my friends becuz they have reationships and i dont and they're younger then me.
2006-09-20 10:30:38 · 12 answers · asked by marie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I already tried the 28 year old thing and it didnt work out and he was in the army tell me whats special about army guys and 28 year old men either they are married with 5 kids or they just want sex.
2006-09-20 10:53:05 · update #1
Stop looking for it. When you stop trying to find the perfect guy, he will find you. When you are desperately looking for it, you are going to go through lots of guys who can put on the nice guy front for a couple months to get what they want. You also have to be patient for they guy that has a plan. The average 18 year old is not exactly positive what they are going to do for the rest of their life, but most of them have a plan on trying to get somewhere. Listen to those plans and the ones that sound the most feasible and well thought out are more likely to work to make those plans happen. Also, be willing to accept the fact that plans change...I wanted to be an animator for Disney from the 4th grade all the way to my Junior year of college, then I changed my plan and have decided to try being a chef. If you are willing to accept the little things, the big things become a whole lot easier. AND, DON'T EVER DATE A GUY WHO WON'T HOLD A DOOR OPEN FOR YOU OR MEET YOUR PARENTS
2006-09-20 11:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by Goofy Ag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, take this advice if you never take anymore in your life. You stated that you were in college, that you were cute and that other guys just wanted sex. Take time out to accomplish your career, your goals and your dreams. Whenever you start getting into serious relationships with guys and at the same time you're trying to focus on college, one or the other is going to occupy your mind the most. You sound like a smart young lady because of the simple fact you're in college. So that says a lot about you. Concentrate on whats best for you and thats your career. Theres plenty of time ahead for guys. But on the other hand if a guy is what you want then I would suggest you try the church.
2006-09-20 17:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till you get to college and then find you a man who
A doesn't drink
B doesn't smoke
C prays
D Believes
E Worships You
F Has a fire in his belly to succeed
G Is your best friend
H Likes Your Cooking...lol Seriously look for those items youll be fine,but be sure your his Princess. Good Luck
2006-09-20 17:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by Giv-Me-An-Sir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you give yourself some space and live single for a while before getting tied down in a relationship?trust me youll have fun!Show all the guys what theyre missing!!!!then go to college and find a guy that deserves you!!
2006-09-20 17:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient it will come==don't ask for people to meet on the internet unless you know they have been screened and then I wouldn't. Life has a way of taking care of itself and along one of your paths you will meet the right person--you are going to have pitfalls but such is life :)
2006-09-20 17:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by THTH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No boy who is 18 is really going anywhere yet.
Check back when he's 28.
2006-09-20 17:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Enjoy life. Travel. Dont be in such a big hurry and you will have a dude before you know it.
2006-09-20 17:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by bradthepilot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the naval base...those guys are hot and are alwasy going somewhere
2006-09-20 17:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
college isnt the best place to find one, they're there but they're hidden, i would offer myself but im sure we are probably not very close to each other, best of luck to ya
2006-09-20 17:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUT BACK OF THE APT. BUILDING SMOKIN CRACK AND DRINKING STEEL RESERVE IN THE ALLY
2006-09-20 17:37:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋