2006-09-20 10:22:16 · 15 answers · asked by mustangsweetthing 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, is your concern the drinking every day or the dating for 3 months part?
Either way, I think that if you are questioning whether or not to marry him, that's enough reason not to. At least for now.
2006-09-20 10:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my personal opinion: never ever marry a boy who drinks.
When you start with a teetotaller, you never know if one day he is not going to be a drunkard. But when you start with someone who drinks you can be sure that it is going to be worse at the first difficulty.
3 months living together! you just had the time to get some pleasure and fun. You never experienced decisions and difficulties of life.
Start talking about future, ask him what is his plan for his life and your life together. Do not speak before him. Let him come first and if you are objective you could determine if your life can fit with his life.
I don't know how old you are, but what on earth will you want to marry? You can live with him for as long as you want. At least you have experience of a couple life and you can make up your mind when you know more about him and about yourself.
2006-09-20 17:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by komal s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you have any doubts about getting married to your bf, because of drinking or otherwise, you should not get married. Regardless of how long you have known each other. The point is, there are issues in the relationship that make you doubt if you should get married. So do not do it.
2006-09-20 17:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by longhorn fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! I dated my husband for six months before we married. He too drank everyday. Now 31 years later I have too many regrets. At first you think things will change but believe me they only get worse. My life could have been so much better. I would hold out for a man who loved me not his drink.
2006-09-20 17:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by myla57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!!! TOO soon, you already have a problem with him drinking everyday........ that isn't going to change because he gets married. You are only fooling yourself if that is what you think. No do not marry him right now, its way too soon!! Blessed be.........
2006-09-20 17:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the fact that he still drinks everyday tells you that he's not a quitter, and that's a good thing.
2006-09-20 17:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is your decision, but i wouldn't recommend it. he will become obsessive and abusive. i know cause my man drinks.
2006-09-20 17:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You actually have to ask people this question?
2006-09-20 17:26:43 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not....unequivocally without question or hesitation...NO!
2006-09-20 17:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
N-O! NO! you deserve a life- you're not his Mom or his therapist...
2006-09-20 17:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs.Foster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋