how do u keep your bf from doing tings you don't like?

Question

my bf is always doing things to scare me and he no it to hes always saying things that get me mad when somethin goes wrong he blames me how do i make him stop

Answer 1

As a guy here is my answer:

He is an idiot. He needs to grow up. He needs to realize that the world doesn't revolve aroudn him.

Now here is how to deal with the situation. If he does something that scares you, if it is in the car wait until he is stopped somewhere, either at a red light or in ap arking area, and just get out.

If he tries to scare you by doing things he knows is dangerous, don't pay attention to him. If he says soemthing is your fault, look him dead in the eye and ask him if you told him to jump off a cliff if he would. Let him know that you are not going to take responsibility for his actions anymore. You are not in control of him or the situation he creates, however you can extricate yourself from the problem.

I agree that I think youwould be better off with a new boyfriend, and I personally think that if he continues to do stupid things you need to look at him and ask him if he loves you. If he says yes, then look at him and say, fine then grow the hell up and stop acting like a spoiled brat. Walk away and let him think about hwat you just said.

Answer 2

First, make sure he knows you're serious about this stuff bothering you. My husband has warned me on several occasions that he is *not* discouraged from doing or saying certain things, because I make cute faces and/or noises. And in those cases, it's okay, because I'm not really *that* upset. He has seen me get truly upset about other things, and now he knows not to do/say those things.

Once he knows you're serious, then see if he changes or not. Even if he doesn't stop the behaviour entirely, does he at least catch himself and apologize or look guiltily at you afterward? If he doesn't, then it's pretty clear to me that he doesn't respect your feelings, which makes him a very bad choice for a mate and you should get rid of him. If he *does*, then just give it time and the occasional bit of re-training.

Answer 3

My bf says he loves to get me mad because i make a really cute face. as for blaming you when something goes wrong i believe he does not want to think about him starting the problem guys always think they are perfect

Answer 4

You cant stop anybody from doing what they want to do. That is why you have to pick a bf who does things you like. Dont bother trying to change people. It will get you nowhere fast.

Answer 5

You can't control others, only yourself. Speak up and let him know that his actions are not pleasing to you. If he continues to upset you, then look for another boyfriend. Why waste time beating a dead horse? There are plenty of guys out there. Don't let one get the best of you.

Answer 6

Tell him how you feel. I told my bf that I diddn't like his girl's just as friends to call him on his cell. I told him i'm scared that his cheating on me . And he told them to stop calling him. Just talk to him and tell him everything how you feel . It always work. Just tell him the things you dont like. He will listean . I hope that everything will work out for you . Just remember this . Always communiate. It always works. Good luck.

Answer 7

talk to your boyfriend DONT break up with him just because soon stranger on the internet said to
find out why hes like that

Answer 8

You find a different boyfriend. Just remember - no boyfriend will EVER be perfect.

Answer 9

you can't change a person from what they really are into something else...you either have to adapt to it or find someone else...or maybe if he cares about you enough he'll try to adapt to your wants but don't ever try to change a person

Answer 10

tell him you dont like it that goes with anything if he dosnt stop it or what ever he does might hurt you leave the idiot!