I have a boyfriend, we have been dating for a little over a month now, I also have a guy friend that I met the same day and have been talking to ever since. I have met the friend and we have a lot of fun together. We are also physically attracted to eachother. I just don't want to hurt my bf's feelings. What should I do????
2006-09-20 09:50:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with your boyfriend. The longer you put it off, the harder it will be for both of you. If he is a nice guy, give him the opportunity to meet someone who is going to be faithful to him and make him happy. That's only fair.
2006-09-20 09:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by Golden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like your friend, then just go for it. . . you don't want to hurt your bf but do you guys have as much fun together as you and the other guy? Just think about for a sec . . .which one makes you the happiest and which one you have the most fun with b/c life is too short to just sit by and watch other people have fun
2006-09-20 09:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by techgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, ask yourself this who do you laugh with more. Who do you have more in common with? Because you may not want to hurt any ones feelings but, you need to make your feelings priority. Physical attraction is great but, sex is not the most important thing in a relationship, it took me a long time to figure that one out. Pick who you feel in your heart is right for you and don't second guess yourself.
2006-09-20 09:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by JJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've already gotten the good answer that you'll hurt your boyfriend worse if you drag it out forever before dumping him.
I'll just say that "I'll go out with this other friend for a while, and go back to my boyfriend if things don't work out" is a very foolish plan. I'm not saying that you *were* considering that plan; I'm saying that *if* you were, then DON'T. If you decide to end it, let it stay ended. Even if *he* asks *you* to come back, odds are he'll resent this and it will affect y'all later (he'll worry that you'll dump him again next time you make another guy friend, or some such).
2006-09-20 09:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HUtinghis feeling s better than leading him on. You should be straight up with him and tell him the deal and maybe you can still be friends but if you continue to lead him on and lie he could resent you and you may never be able to be friends.
2006-09-20 09:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by tink19812003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up with the bf he won't be that hurt since it's only been a month.
2006-09-20 09:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by fangstar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who do you like more? Follow your, uh, heart (corny, but true). Besides, wouldn't your bf be hurt even more if he found out?
2006-09-20 09:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by cadence_lost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you cant only be with your boyfriend, then you need to get out of that relationship. obviously you want to be with the other guy. its too late to worry about feelings, you already have put your feelings towards another guy. *shakes head* and girls wonder why we ask what are they thinking..........
2006-09-20 09:54:22 · answer #8 · answered by cr4is2py0 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to let your boyfriend down easy and tell him you're just not feeling him like you use to
2006-09-20 09:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by MsJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
~By all means don't hurt his feelings with honesty and integrity. Sneak around and cheat on him until you get caught. He'll feel so much better that way. Duh. You have decided as to what you are going to do. Do it. You don't need my permission or approval.
2006-09-20 09:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by Oscar Himpflewitz 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋