Do you find a girl being sexy when a girl have a lot of opinion with things or a real sweet girl that just agrees with everything and is ready to compromise to anything? The reason why I asked is because my boyfriend thinks that I'm too sweet and that makes me kinda weak and he would tell me about his exgirlfriend how she be always be fighting with other people because of her being very opinionated. He says that he doen't like it because she gets really crazy but sometimes he thinks that it's kinda sexy. He always tells me to toughen up too cause he thinks that I let people run over me which is not true I just dont like confrontation, is that wrong?
2006-09-20 09:49:22 · 15 answers · asked by Irene 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, what's your bf trying to say is that showing self confident is attractive. don't confuse sexy and self portray attitude together. it's okay to express your opinion, it shows that you're smart and able to think for yourself. don't be a push over and agree with what people say. it doesn't sit well. baby girl, some time you have to stand for what you believe. you don't want to be part of the sheep that can be heard back and forth.
2006-09-20 09:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Dear Lady -
First off, not liking confrontation and avoiding confrontation are two things. First do yu avoid it at all costs? Or do you just not like it? If it is avoid it at all costs, as a guy I say grow a damn backbone. If it is just not liking it, but you stick to your guns, then that is awesome!
I love a lady that will sit there and tell me I'm wrong, and then prove it. It means she isn't going to be a quiet little mouse. But I don't want to be with a girl that is going to get into a fight over something that is not important.
My idea of a sexy lady is one who knows what she knows, and will stick to her guns, not get crazy ove rit, but prove she knows what she knows. If she doesn't is willing to at least listen and form her own opinion.
2006-09-20 16:53:44 · answer #2 · answered by ce1n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a sexy woman who can think for herself, If I wanted someone to think and say my opinions then I'd buy a Barbie doll.
Intelligent women are a turn on.
2006-09-20 16:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being head strong is great but not when you get crazy. Have your opinion and feel free to express it but understand the other person's viewpoint as fell. Shows maturity and intelligence which are always a turn on....
2006-09-20 16:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by bostoncity_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a woman that has her own opinions, thoughts, and interests. There's nothing sexy about woman who is little more than a pretty package.
2006-09-20 16:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys are intimidated by a smart girl...they just want someone that looks good on their arm that they can screw. Some guys like the challenge and need to be stimulated intellectually. I would go with it. Try to find out what his limit is and stick with it.
2006-09-20 16:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by want it bad 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not like meak, or soft women. I like a woman that has an opinion, but is respectful about how she gives it. I also like a woman who is.....and this is probably what your boyfriend realy wants.............confidence. I like a woman who is confident, but NICE....polite and mature.
That will get you a lot from the males in the world.....personality-speaking that is.
2006-09-20 16:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learned not to take a girls sweetness as a sign for weakness... You will be confrontational when and if it pleases you and believe me, he won't like it!
2006-09-20 16:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by J j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it impossible for you to be in the middle?? you can be sweet as well as opinionated, i love a girl like that, because she shows that she has a brain and likes to use it but she's not a b*tch which is intolerable
2006-09-20 16:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like my women with a mind of thier own.. i dont need a weak minded woman,,, someone who can handle issues as needed
2006-09-20 16:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋