What do you want to be? What are your goals in life, your interests, your hobbies? Do you want a husband, a boyfriend, a lover? Do you want to have a career, or be a homemaker and mother? Do you have friends, family? Do you go to church? What about an education?
Here I am asking all these questions because I can't tell you how to find out what you are supposed to be. That decision is yours to make, my dear. You're only stuck in a rut, apparently, because you want to be. If not, get out of it and get out of yourself. Seek others, get involved in activities, join clubs, test the waters and find out what feels right. And when you do find out, pursue it for all you're worth! Good luck!
2006-09-20 09:56:18
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answer #1
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answered by gldjns 7
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Determine what you want out of it. Do you want to go thru life not knowing what it feels like to ski down a hill? Or fly in a plane? Ride a horse, go water skiing or surfing. LIVE LIFE ! You only get one so find what you like doing and go from there. Take a painting class, learn an instrument or join a group. Life has so much to offer and to share it with others will give you the direction you need - SO GO GET LIVING and get off the internet.
2006-09-20 09:47:26
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answered by Cat 5
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There is no "finding out" what you are supposed to be... it sort of falls in place because of choices you and others make that affect your life. A good way to set yourself on a "path" in that direction is to start thinking about what you would enjoy doing for a career
2006-09-20 09:45:43
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answer #3
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answered by benh316 2
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Good question,i would like 2 know 2 but u r kinda supposed 2 figure that out with time.Hey and don't blame me I'm trying to help.
2006-09-20 09:48:29
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answered by Anonymous
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I have been there lol! Is part of growing up and becoming mature!! Is hard but believe me once you take the right the decisions at the right time... things can go really well!! I have risk lots of things and I am pleased to say that everything has worked out well!!
2006-09-20 09:45:07
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answer #5
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answered by Marmot 2
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Answers to this question comes with time and experience. Who do you want to be? Make a list. Explore some of your interests whether professional or personal. Get out and do things outside of your comfort zone. Meet new people and make new friends. Travel. Just LIVE................
Good Luck!
2006-09-20 09:50:52
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answer #6
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answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5
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Yeah!
but i found out who i am supppose to be and i found out by going to coping.org!
let me tell you this!
you can be what you want to be you just have to train yourself and sometimes do stuff you don't want to , to get to that point!
YOU ARE YOURSELF! AND YOUR THE BEST AT THAT! AND THAT IS SOMETHING TO BE PROUD OF!
envision-u.com
a nother great site but i'm sure that one cost money!
motivational speaker i'm reading his book right now and it helps me realized who i am and that i'm on the right track with my life!
Good luck!
This positive!
Mad luv
2006-09-20 09:47:00
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answer #7
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answered by Anonymous
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I turned 30 and then it all came to me
2006-09-20 09:47:42
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answered by Anonymous
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yes i have but i have not gottona straigh answer for 20 + years. but im here
2006-09-20 09:46:24
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answered by ? 4
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I think you are supposed to be yourself..
But it does seem to get old..
2006-09-20 09:48:03
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answer #10
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answered by 1confused1 3
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