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Since the beginning of the semester, we have been hanging out during class, getting to know one another, and really connecting on a lot of levels. She's amazing and a lot of fun to be around and I really didn't start to take notice of how much I liked her until the past week or so. I asked her out to the movies just for some fun so I could get to know her better but she told me that her parents are super strict... and from what I have heard, that is definately a fact.

A lot of guys would tell me to just move on and it isn't worth it, but we connected so well and I really like her... and don't want to give up on it so easily. So what can I do considering she is like a straight 4.0 student with super strict parents. She hasn't even ever been out to a movie with a guy before because of her parents but she is really sweet.

Any suggestions on what I could do? Ladies please help a nice guy here...

2006-09-20 09:44:03 · 20 answers · asked by benh316 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Try focusing on things you can do around the campus. Don't go against her parent's wishes no matter how you feel. This will show her how much respect you have for her and her parents. If things go well, she will think of something.

If you really are a nice guy, be patient and enjoy the moments you have with her.

2006-09-20 09:49:54 · answer #1 · answered by J j 3 · 0 0

Seriously man, if you like her go for it! She's gotta learn to branch out from the parentals sometime. She's a grown woman if she's in college and can do as she pleases. That could lead to run ins later with parents, but honestly, the worst they can do is kick her out of the house (if she lives with them). Okay, get a job and pay rent. It sounds like to me that she's scared of her parents and needs to sit down with them and explain that she doesn't need body gaurds anymore. Let her parents meet you, maybe they'll love you from the get go. But you at least gotta try or you'll kick yourself later for not even trying for something you really wanted!

2006-09-20 09:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by ladyicetiger 2 · 0 0

Hi nice guy, if you really connect hang in there. You really don't say if your a freshman in high school or college but I'm assuming high school. Take it from a strick mom. They (her parents) have her best interest at heart. If you really connect why are you in such a hurry? Maybe her parents will change there mind if she wants to go out with you.

2006-09-20 09:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by pamelaevans4983 1 · 0 0

if she's in college it sounds tome like she's a grown lady. Are her parents at the college watching her every move? Are you living on Campus or is it a community college? She may be worth it,but you have to ask yourself do u really wanyt to be with someone who is all about pleasing their parents or do you want someone who is mature and grown and can make decisions for themselveseven if it doesn't please their parents.

2006-09-20 09:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by madtyga2002 4 · 0 0

im no lady but my suggestion is to enjoy the time you do have together in class and on campus. remember that your not dating her parents. are you good enough for her according to her parents? do you have the time to wait for her parents to get to know you? if you really like her that much youll figure out a way to make it work

2006-09-20 09:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by chef_q_c 2 · 0 0

If you really like her then you should go for it. Don't worry about what any one else thinks. Try to score brownie points with her parents, but also look at it like this she's in college and old enough to make her on decisions so dont worry about her parents

2006-09-20 09:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by tink19812003 3 · 0 0

aww this is so sweet ,,,wait for her ,she will love you for it ,she wont be with her parents for ever ,and they may even get to trust you in time ,a good thing i always worth waiting for ,i waited 22 years for my husband as we loved each other when young,and went seperat ways then i met some one and he did the same we kept in touch all those years on the quiet,by phone ,we yearned to be together but where both trapped ,then one day his wife kicked him out and he came looking for me and i was with a partner and after all these years i decided enough was enough and told him to leave ,we got to gether and married and have never been happier,this is true love,my heart ached for years ,not any more ,and if you feel this way for this girl ,then wait it dont matter how long ,be saving and building a life for you both or when the time is wright you wont regret it as long as she feels the same way ,and i so hope she do ,cos all you need to have a beautiful life is someone to love ,and someone to love you ,nothing else matters,its the one thing in life that is the most valuble and cost nothing,yet its the hardest thing to find ,
parents are a doddle they always come round eventually hehe,and if they can see you truly love their daughter,well even they must know its the most wounderful thing in the world ,and is very rare,let them see your total devotion ,they will let you in ,win them and you win her ,
go get her stud.......kat.

2006-09-20 09:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 0 0

First thing, make her think you are a bad-***. Girls (especially ones with strict parents) LOVE to do things that their parent's wouldnt approve of. If you don't smoke, start. Act like you are your own man, and be confident. If you do all of these things, it will work.

2006-09-20 09:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by Jeremy R 3 · 0 0

Go to lunch, study together...etc. Her parents sound like they just want to keep her on track. A little overly parental I should add. Get to know her folks. Let them know you are a good guy too.

2006-09-20 09:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0 0

forget about her and all the others they are prob. banging their teacher to pass the class or they are banging many a men at drunk parties.... or they have been abused by a family member ya need to find a virgin.. and good luck with that seeing how the average age for a girl to give it up is 12 just keep studying and graduate and get a good paying job the bitches will follow...after all... they have a nose for money

2006-09-20 09:47:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0 0

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