but i realy love him,and we plan on getting married. he plan to move to kansas city.but i am not sure if he the right one.should i stay with him?
2006-09-20 09:40:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One ... you know how to write English and Two .... get rid of him and move on. Sounds like you're too young to even think about getting married for many years.
2006-09-20 09:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by mikecook987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you invested in him? I mean if he left could you live without him? Those are answer only you can find by searching deep inside. If you have doubts then set him free. Try it single for a while. If not then maybe you should move to kc with him. Long distance relationships are not easy. They hardly last either. I wish you the best. It's a hard choice you have. Talk to him hun. Maybe he feels the same way just neither of you are saying it...GL
2006-09-20 16:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by Me C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is EXACTLY what happened to me. For 3 and a half years!!! I found this out from one of my best friends (who is now my boyfriend of the past 2 and a half) that if he really wants to be with you, regardless of his excuses he'll be with you. He'll make the time.
My boyfriend was in school for his MBA (his second master's degree) so he always used that for an excuse to not come up to visit me he was too tired, he had too much school work, he had to work late etc...
He would tell me to be patient, after school it would get better. Girl... it never did.
Let yourself go...
2006-09-20 16:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey listen to me.. let him go. I went through the exact same situation. If he cared for you he would find the time to come and see you. It's going to be hard for you to let him go but do it now. He does not have the balls to tell you that he is a jerk and he is not interested in you anymore so he brings up excuses not to see you.
2006-09-20 16:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by Niki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont move anywhere. Hes seeing someone else. If you are not important enough for him to drop everything for, why would you make a drastic life change and move to be near him. sounds like it has failure written all over it. Move on.
2006-09-20 16:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should totally buy the book "he's just not that into you!"
Dude move on, if he can't find time to visit you, he's either seeing someone there, or he's just not that into you.
Move on, you can do better for yourself!
2006-09-20 16:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by strawberryblonde131313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you live in of town, u used listen lot excuse, he dont plan to do you, he there bec u holler, learn a english, find a man in a town....:-)
Let go of him hun he's playing with you...
2006-09-20 16:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya i would let him go if he is making excuse so he doesnt have to go see u then, he might be cheating on u but long distance relationships usually dosent work sorry
2006-09-20 16:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by mustangsweething 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your having doubts then no!
why would you your doubting it right now!
tells me you want more!
your worth what you want!
you get what you want if your believe to yourself that your worth it!
Mad luv
2006-09-20 16:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go.
If he comes back to you, his love is true.
If he doesn't, it never was.
2006-09-20 16:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by The Gadfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋