serious and helpful answers only please.
2006-09-20 09:30:05 · 35 answers · asked by PICKLES 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do you want to do that , a man should be keeping you happy?
2006-09-20 10:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by snoopdog 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That attitude puts you in serious danger of entering doormat city. It has to be about what makes the two of you happy as a couple, you can focus yourself and your energy on make someone else happy for brief periods of time but for a life plan you need to find ways that makes both of you happy or you will end up feeling like you gave so much and got nothing back and it will not work. Men are pretty easy really....they want sex and to have their penis worshiped...its really not that complicated or fulfilling for you as a person. You can't lose yourself in anything and have it work out long term...sooner or later you will want you back.
2006-09-20 09:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously I think there is some truth to the people who have said swallowing. But its not the only thing.
If you swallow a man feels like you are taking a part of him inside you, if you don't its like you don't want it and they get hurt. To men its the difference of whether you love them or not, they don't understand. But with explanations and reassurance you can make them understand, you shouldn't do anything you don't want to.
But more importantly, if you let him have a little space now and again, and if you don't be too needy, if you don't accuse him of things and if you don't nag him, if you are supportive of what he does, if you don't expect things from him, but just be surprised when he does something...........then not only your man, but also you too will be happy.
2006-09-20 10:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by lakmii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... since u can never really Make someone love you, or take care of you... and u can never really know what's inside their head.. i think the first step is taking care of urself first:
make sure you are attractive: take care of ur appearance, ur body, ur skin, ur hair, ur clothes.. this is for Yourself and to build ur own confidence (which is attractive to the man as well! the better u look, the more he'll be proud to have u as his girlfriend!)
next, make sure you are smart: study, read, learn, understand, keep an open mind, be able to speak to friends, family, even strangers about any topic. find hobbies, excel at them. the more u know, and the more ability u have to discuss and learn and teach w/ other people, the more u will bring to the relationship, and he can trust the way u think, the way u learn, the way u can teach.
after that, make sure you are a good Person. a good Woman. constantly seek what is Good, Positive, Healthy, and ultimately Happy. take care of the way you treat yourself AND others. be able to maintain and grow relationships with people, with family, friends, teachers, kids, etc. be proud of ur actions and ur appearance and ur smarts. be Responsible for your OWN business, don't depend on someone else to always fix things for you. be a Strong, Confident, Happy, Open Minded, Loving, Trusting, TrustWORTHY Woman.
... and i believe that will make a Strong, Confident, Happy, Open Minded, Loving, Trusting, TrustWORTHY MAN happy too! u gotta make sure he really respects you, and is willing to work just as hard on himself to be a Good Man, and that way both of u are continuously working to make the relationship BETTER. if the guy doesn't appreciate or respect you, than it doesn't matter WHAT u do.
good luck, and i hope that u can always be able to make Yourself Happy first (in a positive, healthy way ok??) and then u will make an awesome partner for some awesome guy!!! :D
2006-09-20 09:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep mysterious and never reveal the whole you. Never sleep with a man on a first date, make sure once you put out that he knows that it is a big thig for you. Never be clingy, always play hard to get, treat him badly, never commit, make sure you only return every one out of three calls, sometimes blow hot sometimes cold and never never ever show him that you need him.
2006-09-20 09:44:14 · answer #5 · answered by albert_rossie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister once gave me this most useful advice about men.........She said they are like little children, you have to almost mother them. ....low and behold I started to do this and guess works....it works, I am in a serious relationship and my man is happy. So basically good food.look after them and good sex and that should keep him quiet. I wish you all the happiness.xx.
2006-09-20 09:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by IloveMarmite 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be your self, If your a loving, kind hearted woman, and you can cook you have high self esteem, and it show with a smile, then you dont need to try to keep! him happy he should already be happy
2006-09-20 09:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ice cold Stellas and a Bombay Bad Boy Pot Noodle.
2006-09-20 09:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
YOU DON`T HAVE TO, WHEN YOU MEET THE RIGHT ONE HE WILL WANT TO KEEP YOU HAPPY, DO NOT BE A DOORMAT BECAUSE HE WILL SOON BE BORED AND MOVE ON. BE SOMEONE THAT HE CAN TRUST. FIND A SHARED INTEREST AND DO THINGS TOGETHER. DO NOT WASTE MONEY AND TAKE CARE OF PERSONAL HYGIENE. GET HIS MUM ON YOUR SIDE AND YOU CANNOT GO WRONG.
2006-09-20 10:11:30 · answer #9 · answered by melas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always like to try new things. sometimes being spontaneous is a turn on for guys. maybe a day of catering to him will help. surprise him by cooking a romantic dinner. give him a massage. a lap dance. whatever he may like, surprise him with it.
2006-09-20 09:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by csmalls05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋