2006-09-20 09:13:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I understand why you are scared dating again since you've had bad relationships before, but you can only look at it in a positive way, there is always something better out there and if you dont look for it then you might never find it and just dwelling on bad past relationship does nothing but bring you down, instead just enjoy life and see what else this life has to offer, look at your bad past relationship as a thing to learn from, just keep trying until you find what your looking for......Good luck!
2006-09-20 09:19:43 · answer #1 · answered by Irene 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared - take control and open your heart to new experiences! Make a list of the qualities you find appealing in a mate; and only date those that match those qualities closely (don't be too rigid though). You certainly want to date someone who is kind, respectful, smart, employed (and excited about their career choice), easy-going. Someone with similar values as yours. Yes, you've been hurt, but so have others. It's the risk we take when we put our hearts on the line. Just don't fall for good looks and that raging hormone attraction. Find someone who enhances your life and who you would be proud to be with and give your love to. Date people you enjoy being with... raging hormones fade. Love doesn't. So get organized, get ready, and toss up your heart and see where it lands!
2006-09-20 09:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take it slow. Have some friendly, zero-pressure dates.
2006-09-20 09:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by Joel D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date yourself. That way you can go thru life without ever having to experience it.
2006-09-20 09:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be bold , and date again , just a different guy , and things might turn out better!
2006-09-20 09:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by joe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just Do It.
2006-09-20 09:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
one step at a time. don't rush into anything.
2006-09-20 09:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by sarapooh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take it slow
2006-09-20 09:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by BIG WILLIE THE GEORGIA TITIAN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be your self
2006-09-20 09:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by yates1239 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋