me and my b/f broke up because of a short ugly fat gurl from flordia the came back to see him and he didnt want to break up with me because he loves me and cant stand to see me with another guy and he want give up this other girl and i really love him and i want him back and ive been trying to make him mad a jealous by being with other guys but i dont think its working so how do i get him b/k and what should i do plus he grew up with the gurl but he doesnt realize him and her dont have a real relationship just a very close friendship because i have had that happen to me
2006-09-20 09:09:54 · 15 answers · asked by Olivia S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah. Some punctuation would be nice.
If your boyfriend loved you, he wouldn't be seeing the other girl.
2006-09-20 09:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you need to step back & let this situation take its course. Sometimes the trying to make them jealous doesn't work. Sometimes it looks like I'm moved on now that you have. There are plenty of other guys out there that didn't have short ugly fat childhood girlfriends. If he didn't want to break up with you then he wouldn't have. Unless you broke up with him because you were jealous? So sweetie take some time to get over your broken heart, love yourself & move on.
2006-09-20 16:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by twinkle toes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he sees something in the girl if he broke up with you for her. You see her as fat and ugly and he clearly sees her as something better. You shouldn't try to make him jealous by seeing other guys because it might be turning him off about getting back with him. Be the bigger more mature person and if it is meant to be he'll come back.
2006-09-20 16:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by MommaMia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should slow down and let him do his thing. if you guys are meant to be together this space won't break the true bond. my first suggestion, however, would have to be to stop playing games. that never helps a relationship. then, you could always stop calling the person he has an emotional (even though it's a childhood friendship) attachment to short, fat, and ugly. if you show some maturity that may just be attractive to him.
2006-09-20 16:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by writing is my gift 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question I have is: why do YOU want him?
He dumped you, he lies to other girls. He's dating another girl. He's too jealous to let you have a life, but is enjoying both of you girls. He's two-timing you. He's lying to one if not both of you. He's cheating on someone here.
Really now- is he the best you can do???
You actually want him???
Is he really such a prize???
You have some pretty low standards if he's all you want in a man.
I can't advise you to to "get him back" because I don't even know why you'd want him!
2006-09-20 16:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because it happened to you, doesn't mean it happens to all.
Is she ugly to you? Must be that's making you jealous! Fat? Maybe he likes a little meat onhis gals????
Sounds to me, your trying to make him jealous isn't working, cause maybe he knows your a slut.
If your having to be with "other guyS" you must be hard up, or these other boys don't care to be with you long either.
2006-09-20 16:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this same situation happen to me, 5 years later, end result, I married someone else, and he married the fat, ugly girl. Let him figure out what he wants on his own and try to be his friend through it. He needs to see it for himself.
2006-09-20 16:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by ladydragondale 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See why looks dont mean everything? If she is so ugly and fat, why is he still with her not with you?
I think you should move on and get over him cause he not into you but another whom you have such low/bad regards for. You could be more appreciated elsewhere you know? Move on and if he is trully yours he'll come to you.
2006-09-20 16:16:05 · answer #8 · answered by kool-K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say, you can't tell your heart who to follow, but you can choose whether to follow your heart. I say move on. Life is too short. He is obviously happy. If you truly loved him, you would want him to be happy, whether it be with you, or short fat and ugly.
2006-09-20 16:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by Lux 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your cruel. plain and simple. she's probably not short, fat, or ugly, you're just jealous. and even if she was, i'd much rather short fat and ugly than someone as spiteful and bitter as you.
2006-09-20 16:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by umbrella journalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋