ok i know another bit of doemestic abuse question.
But my abusive partner was made homeless by his ex girl friend and he lives at my flat.I am going to a womens sheter and i dont want people to think iam evil because i will be making him homeless.
But i iam leaving on the 27 of november do you think iam making a right decision
2006-09-20 09:08:30 · 11 answers · asked by yates1239 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont want to kick him out but i making descision wht i be in a shelter because of him do u think i should give him my flat i just want to get away of the abuse
2006-09-20 09:13:18 · update #1
the abuse had been happening for 4 yrs
2006-09-20 09:16:16 · update #2
You sound like a very nice and considerate person who doesn't deserve to be abused. Don't worry about him -- low-lifes have a way of getting by just fine on their own. And perhaps, while he's out sleeping on a sidewalk, he'll be able to ponder why he's sleeping alone on a sidewalk instead of in a home. Okay, that's not likely, as you mentioned he's done this before to someone else. And since that is the case, I'd have to opine that he deserves anything he gets.
Take care of yourself. You deserve it. He doesn't.
2006-09-20 09:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by Avie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are making the right decision and you shouldn't be worried about his living situation. He's abusive. He doesn't deserve your care and consideration.
2006-09-20 09:10:50 · answer #2 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't state whether or not your partner has been abusive to you, but in any case, if he has done it once he'll do it again. LEAVE AS SOON AS YOU CAN!!
2006-09-20 09:13:46 · answer #3 · answered by lariat_sonata 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is abusive.......you should leave TODAY !!!! He will be fine. There is always the next fool to take him in
2006-09-20 09:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by seen-better-days 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're worrying about the wrong person.
2006-09-20 09:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by bsmart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO Keep the poor man ! Thats just wrong!!!
2006-09-20 09:11:00 · answer #6 · answered by Short Guy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do you worry what people think you should be more confidant. Hes an ********.
2006-09-20 09:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is taking you so long... leave now,,, before something else happens
2006-09-20 09:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to do what is right for you.
2006-09-20 09:10:38 · answer #9 · answered by ladydragondale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget making him homeless... make him DEAD!
2006-09-20 09:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by Friendly Neighbor 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋