Can a man be too nice?
2006-09-20 08:53:44 · 44 answers · asked by Devin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only way a man can be to nice is if he's one of those clingy nice guys. That would be a guy who showers a girl with love and affection, but he is constantly calls her, messages her, or checking up on her. Then he's to nice.
2006-09-20 09:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's possible. Sometimes girls don't like too nice guys because some are too laid back. I had this problem with my an ex. he always seemed to think that by being nice was a way to show that he trusted me. The way I see it is if a parent would be nice all the time i would think that they didn't care. I personally have to have men that have a little backbone. So one who's willing to stand up.
2006-09-20 08:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by Gabri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you are doing to be "too nice" Bringing a single flower for a first date is nice. Bringing a bouquet of roses? Too nice. A big turn off. Opening doors - well I think it depends on your generation. For teens and twenty somethings today, probably, too nice. For the older generations, nice. But yes, a guy can be "too nice" and it can be a big turn off. Usually, if you are too nice in the beginning of a relationship you can forget about it. If you are in a relationship that has been established, it's fine to be "too nice" as long as you feel you are getting appreciated. To sum it up - Don't be "too nice" at the very beginning! There must be some truth in the saying "Nice guys finish last! - Best of luck to you.
2006-09-20 09:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by momma g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what you mean by too nice. It is good for a man to be nice, but not to the point where he is letting someone walk over him. My husband is very nice, but he also stands firm on those things he believes in. Compromise is a nice word.
2006-09-20 08:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by J.Z. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The too nice ones are annoying.
Too nice is too much, we like the nice attention, but we hate a man to be to woozy for words.
2006-09-20 08:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a fine line. We want a man who is nice but can also stand up to us when we need it. Who will tell us we are beautiful, but also let us know when those jeans just aren't as flattering as we think they are. Loving is one thing...but..needy...is another. We know you need us...but dont treat us like we are your mom. We all want a man who will stand up for us no matter what, but tell us how crazy we were when we get home.
Good Luck...I hope this isn't too confusing.
2006-09-20 09:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by lisa46151 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, personally, don't think so. At all. But unfortunately it is also true that it is human nature that nice people can often provoke selfish behaviour in others. However, I certainly don't think that provides an excuse not to be nice. Why bring yourself down to other people's levels? Be as nice and lovely as you can and be very proud of it!
2006-09-21 03:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by Quilps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like it if a man gives me my way all the time or never tells me what he wants. I like a man who will lead in the relationship. He can be nice as long as he's not a pushover.
2006-09-20 09:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's right. Some times they can be too nice and it gets annoying. Or, creepy nice and she'll want to run. If he's nice all the time, what does that woman have to look forward to ? Odd, I agree.
2006-09-20 08:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by brevly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thing is, a woman likes a man that can stand his ground.. we like guys to be nice and sweet, but there is such a thing as too nice and too sweet.
2006-09-20 08:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by qbanita0113 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋