what does it mean when your mate's ex says they aren't going no where and how do you handle this with your mate without causing problems in your relationship.
2006-09-20 08:53:32 · 7 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he said if he tells her to stop calling etc. that would just cause her to call more and keep harassing him. Is this just an excuse?
2006-09-20 09:11:57 · update #1
sit down and have a talk with them and express how you feel......
2006-09-20 09:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sexxssay? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have 2 choices, and not one of them will not cause problems in your relationship.... You could just ignore ex, but the fact that the ex will always be around will indefinitely cause problems between you and your mate. If you tell your mate that they need to handle the situation, (thats the way I'd handle it) You will ultimately see if your mate is over the ex, or if in fact your mate enjoys the ex "not going anywhere". If that is the case, DUMP THEM... you should never have to compete with an ex, if your mate can't let go of the ex, then you need to let go of them!
2006-09-20 15:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by slickpam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why in the world it your mate with the ex
2006-09-20 16:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to your mate to deal with the ex.
2006-09-20 15:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by chiara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the ***** or *** to **** off and then in nice tone of voice express your feelings about this to your mate, thats absolute bullshit in my book!!! He should tell her to leave you two alone since you are so happy together...
2006-09-20 16:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ex is never a problem, only if you make a big deal out of it.
2006-09-20 15:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him deal with the ex and try to be yourself.
2006-09-20 16:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by Dutchie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋