Is it unresonable for me to want to know the friends my wife has and to want to meet these people rather they are male or female? Is it also unresonable for me to not want her to be friends with people we both known are know drug users!
2006-09-20 08:47:46 · 8 answers · asked by marine_one1996 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't think you are being unreasonable.If she doesn't have anything to hide then she shouldn't have a problem with you meeting them all.
As for the drug users-I would hope that she would see that they aren't the best to hang out with and want to change who she is friends with.
2006-09-20 09:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there should not be a problem at all, for you to meet her friends, And she should also meet yours,if she so desires.It would probally be better if she did not hang around with drug users, but you can't force that, maybe you two, should sit down ,have a nice long conversation about what is really important, "why" she doesn't want you meeting her freinds, and just smooth out the issues.
2006-09-20 09:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't unreasonable to want to meet your wife's friends, just as she should meet your friends. Regarding the drug users, if they were old/close friends that might be harder because maybe she would want to try and help them or be there for them, but if she has a problem with drugs or you think she is vulnerable then she shouldn't hang out with them.
2006-09-20 08:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, unreasonable? probably not. but i would approach it in a way that makes her think that you're interested in her life. how about throwing a party and all her friends can come and mingle?
about the drug users- if they are friends of your wife, then that's the way it is. if she isn't using it's okay. just make sure she keeps her distance if things start going down the tubes.
2006-09-20 08:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by ashley f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its best to know each others friends even if you don't hang out together all the time but its also a good ideal to go out with couples don't have friends with bad habits that could break up your relationship between the two of you
2006-09-20 08:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by fancey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is an adult. You're not her father. She can be friends with whomever she chooses.
2006-09-20 08:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are being unreasonable, and childish and sounding like a jealous a$s.
2006-09-20 08:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Why wouldn't she want you to know her friends. Does she have something to hide.
2006-09-20 08:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by angeleloves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋