Ok seriously do you want to be in a relationship like that? Where he treats you bad and in turn expects you to treat him like a king? Don't you let him think you are crazy and that he is right. Don't you let him use you like that. You don't want a relationship like that forever do you? Get out now and don't waste anymore time on someone who isn't worth spending it on. Why spend your time on this guy when you could be spending it on someone that would treat you better. He is only holding you back from finding someone that will treat you the right way. No one deserves to be used like that. Even if you were completely wrong, do you think it's ok for him to make you feel the way you do right now?
2006-09-20 08:53:59
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answered by me me me 3
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Oh honey, he is playing you I'm sure. You said yourself he only shows up when he wants something. And if you had complained about committment, thats why he showed up this time. He was worried that you would get fed up and he would lose his meal ticket (so to say). If you want a relationship with this "man"...then you need to set some ground rules and deal breakers. And saying mean things and trying to make you think he is always right should be one of the top. Men will manipulate if you let them. His actions and words are what makes you insecure, and he knows this. But, he always gets to come back, and he also knows this. Sweetie, if your on a fixed income, and he knows this. Then he is a loser. Taking advantage of you like that shows no remorse or feelings other than for himself. He is looking for a sugar-mama. It's easier to feed one than it is to feed two. If he was a real man, he would at least get a job...keep that job..and help you out if he stays sometimes. I hope you can either see the light, and learn to love yourself. Or you can come to some sort of terms with him. I wish you the best of luck !!!!
2006-09-20 08:54:22
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answered by lisa46151 5
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He is right. Your too insecure and sensitive to be ALONE, to the point where you'll put up with his attitude.
I hate to say it, but it's you that have allowed him to behave this way towards you. If you don't do something about this right now, your going to regret it and it wont be his fault. You'll become bitter, demanding, and more insecure about yourself than you are now.
The first thing you have to do is make some major changes in yourself. You have to change how you behave. How your approach towards your own life inside and out. You should seek professional help in guiding you to make the person you want to be. But that has to happen when you make the decision to to make a healthy choice for your own person and not to have "someone" in your life to feal complete (remeber that line in Jerry McGuire? Romanitic huh? That's HOLLYWOOD. Not REALITY).
The mistake women like you make, is to see a man's potential. Not who he really is. Everyone has the potential to be President. But what are they doing to reach that goal? Besides, what you think they can potentialy be, is like changing someone. Good luck with that sh*t.
The more you establish yourself as person who is focused, the more PEOPLE (not just men) are going to approach you from how you position yourself. Your going to have to make yourself happy first before doing that towards others. It's going to take some work, but hey, look at the amount you put into this relationship, which is nothing you want.
Make personal changes and be responsible for YOURSELF! That way, you'll be in the world you feel you should be in and watch the magic happen.
Good luck.
2006-09-20 09:33:17
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answered by monkeymustard 3
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Get rid of him, he's using you. Who in their right mind would let someone talk like that to them and treat them like that? Furthermore, there is no way I'm letting some guy take my car while I had to take the bus - that is crazy. You need to look out for you and start looking for a man who loves you and will be there for you 100% and treats you like a queen. Get rid of this loser and tell him to lose your number.
2006-09-20 08:49:12
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answered by Rawrrrr 6
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Dumb this loser!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IMMEDIATELY!!! He IS using you!! I mean come on....someone who actually cared about you would NOT treat u like that. Being alone is better than being with some guy who treats u like crap. Trust me on this...I've been there. Kick him to the curb...if he insults u he has no respect for u. Now my question to u is why are you keeping him around if as you say he's nasty with you. You need to build up your self esteem.....after all, he's only getting away treating you badly cause your letting him.
2006-09-20 08:54:16
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answered by sunshine 2
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Roger Nielson had 2 (a minimum of) rule alterations made to hockey whilst he coached. the two many adult males rule whilst down 5-3 interior the final 2 minutes and the goalie stick placement whilst he leaves for an further attacker.
2016-12-15 11:18:59
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answered by Anonymous
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Get rid of this guy! He's a leech and he's using (and will continue to use you) for whatever he wants. If he won't even kiss you during sex then he'll never commit to you. Kick him out of your life.
2006-09-20 08:48:12
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answered by goldiemcg 3
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He's a leach get rid of the Sucker.........You shouldn't have even given him your number if he ain't got no car, Girl! raise yo standards. R u retarded? Even Stevie Wonder can see he playin you.
2006-09-20 08:52:57
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answered by lildemon78 2
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DO NOT LISTEN TO J I Z Z ....that is not even in todays society, unless you are into BDSM! That dude (both) lol sounds like a POS!
2006-09-20 08:51:17
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answered by janet98203 1
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TAKE IT FROM A GUY HE DOES NOT GIVE TWO SH$%S ABOUT YOU GETS IT WHEN HE CAN AND WHEN HES NOT THERE IS HE BUMMING FROM ANOTHER WOMEN THEN SHE GETS MAD HE FLOATS YOUR WAY DUMP HIM IF HE IS NOT KISSING YOU HE IS NOT MAKING LOVE TO YOU HE JUST FU%$ING WATCH BEFORE HE MOVES IN YOU BE THINKING WHAT THE HAPPENED
2006-09-20 08:59:24
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answered by greg m 2
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