I can't stop thinking about the first person I ever kissed. I tried to pursue the relationship further but they ended up not even liking me in that way. Its terrible b/c everyone I try to be with now, I compare them to that person and all I want to do is forget about them. Does the pain ever go away? Does it ever get easier to let someone you loved go?
2006-09-20 08:32:45 · 11 answers · asked by Rob 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Allow yourself time for grieving and feeling desperate. Then move on. It's not fair staying with somebody and thinking about someone else. Probably you will now and then think about that person, but as time goes by your memories will become less painful and sweeter.
2006-09-20 08:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does and that takes time. Everyone has their own time schedule and yours will to. Keep going and it does get easier Allow yourself to let go and stop living in the past.
2006-09-20 15:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by DEborah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not so much. Until you find the love of your life, the one that loves you back just the way you love them.
2006-09-20 15:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lost In Love... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, No. I never forget, and I still compare constantly just as you do. I think we end up building them up even more in our heads.
Sad but true.
It just becomes more bearable; with the years.
2006-09-20 15:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ye sit will get eaiser I promise.. I was with ym ex for 5 eyars and he left me it was hard for a while but you will see it is all for teh better. Everythign happenes for a reason!
2006-09-20 15:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,, when you find the one you love ,, you won't rememeber much about this other person,, until then just live your life today,, not in the past,, Good luck
xoxoxo - maybe that will help giggle-
2006-09-20 15:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by B V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually it goes away and it does get easier.
2006-09-20 15:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are hooked on her still, but if she doesnt want you anymore, then look for someone else.
you can still find better kisser than her, trust me
2006-09-20 16:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by ahhhlain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not love my friend, love is scarce
2006-09-20 15:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by cryptocomp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how long your with someone
24 hours: yes
6 years: no
2006-09-20 15:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by Enthusiast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋