After having a break with my boyfriend, he now likes somebody else, who he has asked out. I have also had an offer, but i still really like my ex boyfriend and so said no. The girl he asked, turned him down, but it still hurts me to think that he no longer loves me. If i talk to him i will end up hurting the person who really likes me, probably myself from the rejection and i will mess it up even more with my ex boyfriend. Am i doing right by leaving it and sparing everybodies feelings? I just want my ex back so much.
2006-09-20 08:26:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you broke up and ask someone else out already, get over it.
If he goes back with you is only because the other girl said no. The first couple of weeks and maybe a month or two is hard, but you broke for a reason and if that girl would have said yes, right now he would have been with her and have forgotten all about you.
So if you are not ready to start a relationship, is understandable, but don't focus too much on his life and trying to go back with him, have fun and meet other people and keep your self occupied.
Good Luck.
2006-09-20 08:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want him back so badly, then you should take the risk and talk to him.
If he want to be with you, he will try to fix things after you had taken the first step.
If the talking doesn't work, it would be a sign for you to move on and forget about the guy, but at least you have tried instead of waisting your time waiting and thinking of what would be.
And about the other guy wh likes you, if he really likes you, he will be there if your relationship with your ex doesn't work out.
Good luck!
2006-09-20 08:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are broke up, he can ask out whomever he wants, and so can you. If you broke up with your ex, it was probably for very good reasons, if you get back together, you will just break up again. There are more fish in the sea, keep looking, you will get over your ex in time. Date who you want to date, see what else is out there.
2006-09-20 08:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by T C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be true to yourself, if that would make you happy then do it. but don't do it in a way that your ex will have a bubble-head. you see, there area guys who love to be tailed by their eX's, and that really hurts. so, if you really love him, then take the risk. but if you think there's no point on talking to him for a second chance, then why waste your time?..
2006-09-20 08:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by _cries_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, think about who you want to be with.. do you think that you and your ex could work things out? if so, is it worth not dating the other person? That would be your answer.
Who do you feel the most like yourself with? If you restart things with your ex are you going to be able to get over feeling like things aren't going to work?
2006-09-20 08:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by wingnutrosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish i could help you. i just recently got back with my ex (technically now he isn't my ex though) anyway... it is a lot different now, so maybe you should just let it be for now. at least wait a couple of weeks to let it all blow over.
2006-09-20 08:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by Amy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on because he already has. He broke up with you to try and go out with another girl. He's not that into you.
2006-09-20 08:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋