K, so my friend was fine until the first day of school. She was goth and all emo-depressed! Now she has 2 goth friends and her old friends all don't know why she is like that! What should we do? She wouldn't talk to me or her old friends!
2006-09-20 08:07:44 · 9 answers · asked by Keys 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I am in 7th grade!
2006-09-20 13:58:24 · update #1
K so I talked to her today and she says things like "I hate you because I hate my life and everything in it, including you!" But shes just depressed, her friend is worse, I saw cuts on her arm and it scares me!
2006-09-22 07:46:11 · update #2
Try to contact her when she is away from her new friends, then talk to her. Try to be supportive of her decisions and let her know you are there for her. Being goth is OK, but being depressed is not.
2006-09-20 08:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Crystal H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's high school. Kids follow and change trends. She probably got into new music over the summer and made a few new friends and is following the trend of gothy-emotive kids who think it's cool to cut and wear fishnets on your arms. Do you really want to be friends with someone who can't stand her ground and be herself?
2006-09-20 17:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by Steph Gas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
goth is just a phase like the 70's with the rock band Kizz
Your friend will outgrow this, but dont put your friend down, just get her involved in better stuff
2006-09-20 15:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably just exploring new things. Maybe she feels her new friends understand her more. Don't worry, your school days will be over before you know it and you will all find your place in the world where you are supposed to be.
2006-09-20 15:21:17 · answer #4 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying to get through to her. Let her know that if she doesn't want to be your friend anymore, that's fine, but you would like to know if there was anything that you did to send her into a tailspin. If not, you can't change the things you can't control, right?
2006-09-20 15:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has internet email her and tell her how you feel, and maybe she will realize how silly she is being. Maybe she feels like she gets along with them better and they don't like you so she just stopped talking to you?
But try to tell her how you all feel.
2006-09-20 15:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by xxxbrokensoulxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to go to the mall or something...Try talking to her but if she doesnt want to talk don't make her. Be kind and considerate and make sure you don't judge her to quickly.
2006-09-20 15:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by Skylar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not ur friend then, just leave it
2006-09-20 15:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her be. If this is the situation, then it is.
2006-09-20 15:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by unseen_force_22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋