how do i tell a guy that i really like him? he's almost alwasys surrounded by people and i know that when i tell him we need to be alone. heres what im thinking and tell me if this is good:
we have a football game this friday night and he's going. im going to ask if i can talk to him alone. i jsut want to start by hanging out, and i will say, hey mitch, i wanted to know if you wanted to hang out sometime together? and hopfully he syas yes, and then i will get the details. so how do i tell a guy that i like him? how will i get him alone? and flirting: i could try to flirt really bad, like noticable, so any ideas for that?
2006-09-20 08:02:58 · 11 answers · asked by emmely v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and he's really shy so he probably wouldnt make the first move.
2006-09-20 08:09:44 · update #1
thanks these are all great answers and i'll try them, most of them anyway, and i know that i am ready to date, well just hang out and get to know eachother, thats what i wanted.
2006-09-20 08:19:52 · update #2
First, whether you like him or not you need to make sure you a ready for a relationship. I don't know how old you are but its a waste of time to date to feed impulses. If your not ready to be in a relationship then just hold off. Be friends and enjoy life, but if you are ready then just let him know. You can let him know you are interested without asking him and without being flirty. Maybe at this football game you can get him to a place where you can talk. Then just talk. Let him tell you what he thinks. You shouldn't go after him. if he is interested he will let you know. A lady should never be very flirty. It make you look like something you're not to him and any one around him.
2006-09-20 08:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by Scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is always in a crowd just go up to him and say "hey mitch can you come here for a sec" this always works, after he follows you to a secluded corner or something just tell him "I really like you your a cool fun person and I was wondering if I could give you my number and maybe we can hang out sometime and get to know each other". You should already have a pen and paper in your purse but don't prewrite your number on the paper cause it will look like you just go around passing out your #. If he really likes you he will offer his number to you without you even asking for it.
2006-09-20 08:15:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just make myself be in places that he hangs out in at first so that you can get an idea if he's digging you but you have to make sure you talk to him. I would do that on a friendly level first before I just busted out with my feelings.
2006-09-20 08:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by PYT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't chase boys!
Don't chase boys!
Don't chase boys!
Don't chase boys!
Please don't tell me you're going to ask to "talk to him alone" then ask him to hang out with you-- LAME LAME LAME!!!
If he's interested, he'll make a move to talk to you. If not, don't throw yourself at him.
Don't chase boys!
Don't chase boys!
Don't chase boys!
BE COOL! Let him come to you. If he doesn't- wouldn't you feel like a loser if you asked him to hang around you and he didn't want to??? Don't chase boys!
2006-09-20 08:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought guys were the insecure ones. Just go after it
2006-09-20 08:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by Brandon L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you like him and i want to try more like to be in a relationship and you and him can try it for awhile and see how it goes!
2006-09-20 08:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by sharon martin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a conversation about the game. after a while start smiling as he's talking and then tell him you like him.
2006-09-20 08:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just re arrange some parts to your question and add you. I like you.
2006-09-20 08:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by horrorfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be direct. Tell him "I like you, and want to jump your bones."
2006-09-20 08:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by Soy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him on the phone (if that is possible) and tell him exactly how u feel.
2006-09-20 08:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋