i am going to tell him but how?

Question

i like my good guy friend. i have decided that i am going to tell him. but i dont know how? i have it narrowed down to 3 ways.
one way is to tell him in person at school (nervous) second way is to tell him in a note either at school or at work. i will either tape it to the inside windsheild or if the door is locked, tape it on the gas door. that when the door opens it will say his name. what is the best way? Any other ideas are welcome. thanks

Answer 1

It would be best to tell him peson, leaving a note would seem a bit childish and you are a woman now not a little girl. Go about it in a flirtatious way also. Make sure you look nice so he can compliment you... I mean I am sure you always look nice but go the extra limb and make it BETTER! Like more emphasis on the lashes today or wear a cute glimmer lip shade today. Follow me? I hope so...

Answer 2

In person shows confidence and strength of character, the best way to do it in my opinion. Forget the note, shows fear and gives you a way to back out. Not to mention that some ill meaning or prankster can see you place the note and change or modify it after you left it...bad idea with the note...Chances are, he likes you too and is just as afraid of you as you are him, just break the ice, walk up to him and tell him that you would like it if he sometime asked you out...

Answer 3

If he's your good friend, just be honest with him and tell him in person. Do it at a coffee shop or at the park, somewhere you two like to go. After all, he is your friend! Just make sure he and you know if he doesn't feel the same way, that that's OK too.If he rejects you all together, as a friend, then he wasn't really your friend.

Answer 4

Take the direct approach not only does it show that you have confidence in yourself, but it will show him that you are truely interested. A note is like 2nd grade note passing. I like you do you like me kind of thing. However, when you tell him you like him make sure you do it in a way so he understands that if he doesn't feel the same way you want to remain friends. If he does reject you, then your friend could be damaged.

Answer 5

My suggestion is that you tell him to his face. If you are at school, wait till you are alone with him, ask him to go for a wlak with you or go to the bleechers with you. Get him alone and tell him straight out that you like him and that you would like to be more than friends.

If he says no, you need to able grown up enough to handle it like a lady and not a little girl. You need to say, ok, can we continue to be friends. If he says yes, then great! good luck.

Answer 6

the note thing is a good idea if you don't have the guts to tell it to his face however, if you really wanna see & know his reactions when he knows that you like him, it would be better to talk to him & tell it to his face..that way, you will get the answers which will not leave you wondering how he reacts to the idea that you like him..Ü

Answer 7

if i was u i would tell him in person so that you both are on the same page about it. notes are for people that dont have enough self confidence to just go up and tell them.

Answer 8

I think you should just find a chance to talk to him in a quiet place and just be frank and tell him what you feel!

Answer 9

Tell him you have something to ask him, Get close as if to tell a secret and then kiss him.

Answer 10

tell him face to face it's best becasue then someone will tyell you what he said and it won't be true!! ♥ Jessica ♥