I'm 13, mom worries a lot about my breasts and don't want boys staring at me.I'm a C cup, so, she makes me wear bras that give much support and no see-through. I agree she's right, but she goes overboard and makes me wear the of bras at . http://www.anita.com/de/en/0,1,104,1478,39236__products-detail.htm They have 4 rows of hooks in the back. Though hey are good quality bras, I don't like them, they are confining and hot. Not the bra a 13 yo would enjoy. But I have no way out. I did EVERYTHING I could for her to let me wear other bras, but she didn't back off and no one else succeeded either. She says it's for my best and is out of love. I know, shes nice, we have a wonderful relationship and I ended up promising her I'll never disobey and will wear those bras like she wants. The kind of promise you make looking into your mom's eyes and I'm a good girl. Am I stuck with those bras?
2006-09-20 07:44:48 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
wear the bra mama knows best don't question her just do it!
2006-09-20 07:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately... no matter how confining a bra is, they will still look. It isn't the bra that protects your chastity... it's the rest of the clothes. They have some nice maidenforms that conceal, and are much more comfortable.. I was a 34 D by the time I was 14, so I know. See if she will agree to a less confining bra, that still covers, and a camousal. They tend to let you breath more, give extra coverage, and can still be worn under your regular shirts. The harassment that you probably recieve from other students your age will pass, quicker if you don't let it bother you... and remember, the slutty clothes don't fit around your bossom because they really shouldn't be worn. Also... those bras tend to have a padded layer inside the cups... you could try cutting the layer out, carefully... Or, if you're up for a real challenge... try customizing them. And besides, you'll have plenty of time to let them out when you're 18. Take her bra shopping somewhere and have her look with you, without passing judgement. maybe you guys can find one more comfortable for both of you. It's never too early to figure out how to buy a proper bra
2006-09-20 08:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by WifeandMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a really sweet girl and believe me when I say I know where you are coming from. When I was 13 years old I was falling out of a C cup and 32 years later I wish my Mom had insisted that I wear support bras. I know they are uncomfortable, (I wear them even now) but as you get older you will be thankful. You probably never think about having a backache, but you will. Just wear the bra and be glad she can afford to buy them for you. There will be other things that you can do your way. Good luck.
2006-09-20 08:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by Blessed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your Mom how you feel. Tell her they are uncomfortable and do not like to wear them and ask her if yall could go out and find a better bra......I am 21 and wear a 36 c and u do not need 4 hooks in the back for a 36 C
2006-09-20 07:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your that youthful, and your breasts are that great, you somewhat choose all the assist you will get. i'm 24 years old and somewhat filling out a B cup. you have got back soreness, no rely what form of bra you place on. Are they uncomfortable to positioned on? or merely kinda grotesque looking? in case you may positioned on the little cotton training bras (no longer activities bras) you would be poking out (nipples) and useful tearing the seams of the bra aside. i'm no longer asserting your fats, or regardless of, yet you have extensive boobs, lady, they choose help, and that they might desire to be held close on your physique.
2016-12-12 11:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but your right that bra is more for an adult I have a 13 year old daughter and I know she would kill my wife if she made her rear that you're good for listening to your mom but you have to do something
2006-09-20 07:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not be known as the school slut; so wear the bras and be thankful for your mother.
2006-09-20 07:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and find something worth worrying about. This actually sounds like a man, trying to be a kid, asking this question.
2006-09-20 07:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to go pick one out with you. By the way, I'm in favor of none.
2006-09-20 08:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋