So I know that i'm in love with my girlfriend, and I know she loves me. But can you ever truly be 100 percent sure that what you are feeling is love, and not just resistance to change? How do you really know if that feeling is a bond that will keep you two together forever, or just something present to keep you two from getting hurt. So what are your insights on the subject?
2006-09-20 07:35:23 · 9 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jay, You are never a 100 percent sure, that is where faith come in to play! Just ask yourself do you get butterflies just thinking about her, do you smile when you think of her when she is not there? Can you laugh, and cry, and respect each other all at the same time? If you trust her and you know you love her you have to let God handle the rest! Trust me your not in control, I have tried that just follow your heart and mean what you say!
Good Luck To you, I wish you the Best!
Always Amy
2006-09-20 07:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by heart2heart27958 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when you're in love, you know it! Just imagine yourself never seeing this girl again, not hearing her voice ever again, not feeling her, hearing her say, I love you ever again. If that makes you deeply sad inside, I think it's safe to say you do love her and want to be with her. But if you are hesitant or second guessing yourself as you are now, then maybe this isn't the one for you. Sometimes you just got to take a chance. You only get out of life, what you put into it.
2006-09-20 07:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jay, you know without even pondering. I am a firm believer that everyone has a least "one great one" where everything clicks and this person does for you what you never shared with anyone; like they were made for you. That is love. And dude, you'd be so happy, you'd know it in an instant.
Good Luck!
2006-09-20 07:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its just something you feel and you have to take the leep sometimes you can love someone so much but its not right and sometimes loving someone else can be the best thing that could ever happen to you it can change who you are and make you a better person. but its still a risk to take
2006-09-20 07:38:36 · answer #4 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when you are in love when you can't even think of the possibility of not being together! There are no guarantee that comes with love!
2006-09-20 07:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why waste your time wondering if it's 100 percent? If you feel it then go with it...Spend your time making love and being happy....
2006-09-20 07:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be negative, but honestly...love is overrated. It is portrayed to us in books, movies, and stories but it's just not reality. So we expect something else, and analalyze everything about love until we go crazy. Welcome to reality huh? Love is different for everyone, don't question it...be thankful that you have it, and remember that you have to keep working hard for it everyday!
2006-09-20 07:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by Meghan L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love....true love.....love.....who cares? Are you happy? That's what counts.
2006-09-20 07:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just kinda know if she is the one you will be spending the rest of your life with. you just know.
2006-09-20 07:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋