I have been seeing this guy since before me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up. I really do like him, well a few things came up and I'm 8 weeks pregnant by him. I have told him and yet since broke up with the "boyfriend" the break up was mutual though, so no hurt feelings. I am happy with this guy, he treats me good, and we are in a relationship together. Here recently he's been talking of maybe moving in together in a couple of months so that we can have our own life and move on together. The only problem is my pregnancy is counted as "high risk," and I might have to terminate it for the child's well being and for my own. Im scared that he is only with me for the baby, he swears up and down hes with me because he cares and he wants something serious with me. What do you think? You think he's really with me for me or because of the baby?
2006-09-20 07:14:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey...the most important thing is u both should be together..dont think that its because of u or baby..u n ur baby are part of eachother..its even good if he loves the baby ..but he loves u too .thats y he is moving ahead with u..so just cheer up..n dont think much..have faith in him n in ur love .
may god bless u..
2006-09-20 07:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by amar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have enough things to stress about than whether or not your current boyfriend is with you for the right reasons. Terminating a pregnancy can be difficult on a long standing relationship let alone a new one. You should worry about your's and your baby's health and let what happens happen. There is no way to predict how your new beau will react if you have to end the pregnancy.
2006-09-20 14:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with it. He may not know himself, but your doubting him will only make it worse.
Guys don't want babies as a general rule. They want them only if it is with the woman they love. After the baby is born they can get attached to it separately from the mom, but not before.
Forget about all the other guys and try to focus on becoming a good person and building your relationship. Then, you can make a family with this baby or another one in the future.
Good luck!
2006-09-20 14:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is with you. he is there for you and the baby. you can't make him choose between you and the child you are having together. that is wrong. he will love you as his partner and the baby as his child. it's a different type of love. just chill out about this and concentrate on taking care of yourself and your unborn child.
2006-09-20 14:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by amandy245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to him if he didnt want to be with you he wouldnt be with you and maybe he wants to take responsiblily as a father and start a good life dont be suspicious cause that will lead into a bad relationship
2006-09-20 14:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by broken hearted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he swears then hes serious........usually a guy would stay with a girl for the baby.........but since he's willing to keep the relationship and having your own house.......girl hes telling the truth...........trust.......is the only thing that keeps a relationship strong.........if you don't trust...........then what u gonna do??.....raise the baby alone??.........think about it.........trust him......... :) good luck!
2006-09-20 14:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by sexy_ndn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he loves you both.
2006-09-20 14:19:33 · answer #7 · answered by Whoa_Phat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋