My boyfriend started working at a new job and all he does is talk about his boss saying how cool she is and that she is rich and drives a nice BMW. He showed me a picture of her on her buisness card because she is also a realtor and she is very pretty she is over 40 yrs old and he is 29 yrs old & yesterday he came home late & took a shower & washed his clothes right away. Is he messing with her???
2006-09-20 07:06:04 · 12 answers · asked by No way! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he stops talking about her, and brings you flowers, he is messing. He'll grow out of it. It's you he comes home to.
2006-09-20 07:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by Tertia 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Some guys do shower immediately after having sex. I don't understand why. Maybe they are disgusted by what they've done.
It's a weird type of behavior. I'll tell you that much. But that is the case sometimes.
I cannot blame you for being distrustful. Add to that the fact that 40 year old women are aggressive and make the move on young guys like how any guy makes a move on a girl. I personally find it grotesque when a girl tries to initiate anything. I'm a bit old-fashioned and prefer to "direct traffic" so to speak.
If your man is passive, he may have been seduced by her and her materialistic possessions and guaranteed "free shag." If so, he might have been horny and she sensed this and capitalized.
I hope not. But some men don't have control over their devices.
But if you're 28 or near your BF's age, I can tell you this much: she can have all the BMW's she wants but, most men would choose you over Ms. "I'm a Realtor with Beamer."
2006-09-20 14:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is shady. Very shady. One thing - if you have a gut feeling about something its usually right. Trust your intuition. Why the hell is he talking to you about another woman anyway. Its normal for him to say that she is a cool boss. But the extent of saying oh she is so rich, drives a BMW and then shows you a picture of her. Very strange.
2006-09-20 14:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by SxyPR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok the shower thing I have done after work but the clothes that he wore that day he washed? That sound like he is covering his tracks. Next time it happens go into the bathroom while he is showering and take his underwear and inspect them. Another trick is try being intimate with him after you suspect foul play, if he doesnt play along that could mean trouble.
2006-09-20 14:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by PHILLYGUY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE not .BUT HE is impressed with her money+car. IF it goes on it may turn into something. BUT she is at least 12 years older then him.
2006-09-20 14:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a pretty good sign! You need to check in to this one.
2006-09-20 14:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be. but there is no reason to jump to conclusions. you need to find out for a fact before you start accusing.
2006-09-20 14:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by amandy245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, girlfriend!
2006-09-20 14:08:00 · answer #8 · answered by TWEETY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know...sounds like it but best you can do is snoop a little
2006-09-20 14:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to watch him closely because if he did that then he might be sleeping with her..
2006-09-20 14:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋