just need to know so that i can try to get hooked up in someone like me. does this make sense?? question only for girls/women please respond they definitely are all fine and they know best. Right??????
2006-09-20 07:00:35 · 22 answers · asked by ROD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drink more, "hot ripe women" will be easier to see:)
2006-09-20 10:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your definition of hot and ripe could determine what kind of woman you are talking about....Men like all types of women, so what is hot and ripe to one guy, may not be the same to you. The only way you can attract a woman, is usually just be yourself......any woman that you may end up falling in love with, will be the hottest, and ripest woman alive (in your eyes).
2006-09-20 14:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a quality man. She'll pick up on that. By quality man, I mean respect yourself and her. Treat your mother and your job with respect. Become a christian not for the girls but because you love God. And that's just for starters. Learn how to respect women. Quit looking forsex. Instead start looking for an actual relationship. Quality women aren't looking for sex. They want something more. Start trying to further your intelligence. Pick up a hobby that foces you to learn something and fully understand it. Listen to her. If you actually do all this, you might have a pretty good shot. Also, don't forget to be yourself. Talk respectably and not like a hood. They can find a hood on the streets. Women won't settle with the hoods. Any guy can do that. Something girls ask is "Does he have a job?" It's not about th emoney. It's about how responsible he is. A guy without a job is something we see as a bum. It means he's going to make you do ALL the work and we don't like that. It means he is LAZY. a quality man has a JOB. The way you phrased your question makes me think you are looking for sex. That's completley the wrong attitude! It shows you are not a quality guy. It shows you are a QUANITY guy. As in, "How many women and I sleep with before I die?" and that is the wrong attitude to have. Women don't like being notches on the bedpost. I won't even talk to a guy who has that attitude. The only reason I'm talking to you is to try to help you out here and because you seem willing to listen. After all, you did ask. You also had the sense to ask a woman. That shows some intelligence. Maybe there's hope for you yet. If you're really smart you'll listen to me. You need to change your attitude about how you view women or you will never have a successful relationship with women. Get married and you can have sex with a woman. Marriage has alot of problems but it has alot of benefits too. a woman who cares about you and who is always going to be there to tag team with you and cares about your troubles and you can totally trust her. she'll be your best friend and will pretty much have you figured out and you'll pretty much have her figured out and you'll care about her. It takes time to get to that point. Alot of people marry way too quickly an they never reach that point. they just jump in way too quickly so they dont' see that benefit. they think. Here's a hottie, I'll marry her. But you need to see the bigger picture. I think that's why the divorce rate is so high. Sex is not the reason you GET married, it's just a fringe benefit. The reason you get married ist hat you love this person heart and soul and would give your life for them. And you should be looking at your female friends. Not strangers on the internet. Because your friends are the people you know the best. It goes, friend, girlfriend (boyfriend if you are girl),serious relationship, firancee, spouse and then you have marriage and everything that comes with it. It's alot of fun, I'm sure (I'm still single but I look forward to it.) If you do meet someone online, and I'm not dissing the dating sites because they can be totally wonderful, take the time to get to know them and really evaluate the person. The beauty of the internet is that in this crazy world it has really helped narrow down the selection process much quicker and more easily because you can determine what you want and the results are sifted out. like no smoking no drinking no drugs lives in my area. where as if I was in a club, it would probably take me weeks to find three guys that met that criteria on a dating site I'd find that in minutes. it really speeds up the process and that's the plus. the downside is that you only know what the person is telling you. the photo may not even be theirs. could be the yard boy. (but what a cute yard boy! too bad he's not the one you are interested in!) so you only have that to go on. So basically, you have ALOT to work to do before you can think aobut women. I also advise you to fix whatever reasons you've ever had, the baggage you have been carting around for getting dumped. because I can pretty much guarantee you'll keep getting dumped for it again and again if you don't. andwho really wants to go through that agian? take time to heal between relationships. I know all this is alot of work but If you are serious about finding a good woman it's worth it.
2006-09-20 14:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by leeanndemon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here in Texas in the summer I find women at the bus stop are very hot and smell ripe
2006-09-20 14:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by scotto destructo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by NOT calling her a "fine hot ripe woman"
2006-09-20 14:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by Bryan A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be urself and dont pretend to be someone u are not..that way u will get the woman u are compatible with...u also have to be pleasing to the eyes, with nice attitude... and do not talk about sex all the time. women are all hopeless romantics with exceptions of some. let them talk about it first that will be the time when they are ready. the moment u talk about it we will come up with the conclusion that it's ur only motivation to be friends.
2006-09-20 14:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't know cause I'm more on the average side but I'd say be yourself. Be a good person and you'll attract someone you'll be happy with.
2006-09-20 14:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by Somechicknamednicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want her for the good just be yourself and be nice to her treat her right i don't mean a lot about gifts but, details all little things that women like. if it's for sex just stick around you'll get it eventually if nit her then somebody else.
2006-09-20 14:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Average looks , personality, humor, a job and maybe some property.
2006-09-20 14:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey buddy, sounds like you;ve been
spending too much time with the (palmer twins).
better find a girl fast hairypalms...
2006-09-20 14:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by rottentothecore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋