MY BF AND I ARE HAVIN DIFFICULTIES! I am supposed to be leavn to ALABAMA soon!And he doesnt want me to leave!Tha problem is that HIS best friend is LEAVIN too> and if i leave he would cry his whole heart out this boy and me are in a deep relationship and I love him to death im in the 8th and hes in da 7th i know youre gonna say i dont care or other crap but i need some damn serious help! I know im too young to be thinkn bout a man or BF but I dont want to leave because his mom and his lil sistah and his two brothers are my family and his dads(step&bio) love me and call me theirs and if i loose contact with him I wont be able to know ANY of th em can you respond !!!!!!!!@#$%^&*()_?????????????????
Mz_Gohst_sweetyaya93@yahoo.com
2006-09-20 06:46:59 · 8 answers · asked by ~*~*~B3@UTY_IZ_M@_N@M3~*~*~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie It sounds as though you dont have much of a choice as far as moving goes, but let me just give you some advice for when your'e gone... I have been in long distance relationships before and while many times they end up not so good. The best advice I can give you is KEEP IN TOUCH! Loosing touch is sooo easy hun. Just make sure you make that a priority and if he doesn't ... you dont need him
2006-09-20 06:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question....Are you leaving for Alabama with your parents? If the answer is yes, then you have no choice but to leave. I understand you think you are in love. But let me tell you this....Love in the 8th grade is totally different than love in the 12th grade and love in the 12th grade is totally different than love when you become an adult. I understand that his family loves you and you love them but the two of you have to make a choice on wheather to stay in contact. You have all kinds of means today..You have IM's, emails, text messages, and even the good ol fashion mailbox. Long distance relationships work all the time. Hang in there and It's gonna hurt for a while but it will get better. Trust me.
2006-09-20 06:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok...honestly? No one can tell you what is going to happen....you may keep in contact with this boy...have a strong long distance relationship....end up getting married and live happily ever after......or you could just slowly drift apart and one day...just forget about each other completely......only time can tell...sorry i couldnt be more helpful, but things WILL get better...i promise
2006-09-20 06:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by Father Martin Louis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same thing exactly the same thing happened to me
but you know what????
suck it up dammit okay!!
i had to move more than 15 times and guess what i left so many best friends and amazing boyfriends and the ones that made me smile ok so just get ready to start a new life
2006-09-20 06:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by beyond_cute14 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
doesn't sound like you have a choice here. if you parents tell you to do....they you have to go. you won't lose contact with him. the internet will keep you guys in touch with each other.
2006-09-20 06:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by dom 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
8th grade? Come on. You're too young for something serious. Christ, you're not even in high school.
2006-09-20 06:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by hellfirsthand 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to get a life.
2006-09-20 06:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
just make sure that you do alot of writing.
2006-09-20 06:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋