2006-09-20 06:41:19 · 22 answers · asked by *LaDy C* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends... he might do it again, that's the problem!!
2006-09-20 06:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my man with all my heart and if he cheated on me it would kill me inside, If I took him back I would have the fear he would do it again and I couldnt trust him, I couldnt live like that. I would say if he cheated once this relationship would come to and end no questions asked
2006-09-20 13:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by Christina B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man did cheat on me. And to be completely honest with you i asked that same question. My only advice is do you think he will do it again. And if he does will you forgive him again. Don't let him make you out to be a doormat. But if you truly love him give him "1" more chance. Make it clear though that it will not happen again, and if it does your gone. Otherwise he wil just think he got away with it and take avantage of you. Keep a close eye on him also, but don't make it obvious, because if he truly is sorry that will only make him mad. Good luck sweety!
2006-09-20 13:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by purple_roses48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if a man cheated on me, all love would dissapear. He would not be worth my time and I would never be able to trust him again. That is a big issue for me.
2006-09-20 14:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by sweethot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly me no! Hell no! I've heard once a cheater always a cheater. Everyone is different and I know sometimes people change. This is a questions to where every answer may vary, it all deoends on individuality. But me no, I love my husband truly, but if he cheated on me then he doens't love me, why would you be with someone who doesn't love you?
2006-09-20 13:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by Daisylove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. That would be the end of the road. I'd never speak to him again, much less even profess to love him. I can go from love to hate in a second in cases of infidelity and lies.
2006-09-20 13:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by Enough 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First,make him think it's over.Actually leave if you have to.See how hard he works to get back with you.If he is persistant,it's up to you to give him 1 more chance.If you decide to get back with him,tell him that he has to earn your trust back.Until then if he makes you even so much as feel like he might be doing anything behind your back, get rid of him,because he is!
2006-09-20 13:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by lil_sweetnothings 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My experience:
My now husband and I have been together for 8 year now. We met in highschool, senior year. When I graduated I got pregnant right a way and had my son at age 18.(I graduated at age 17.)
He and I started fighting a lot, stressed out with bills, he was supporting me because I couldnt work right after having my son. He only made $9/hr at the time, and we lived on our own in a small apartment. He felt resentment towards me because of getting pregnant. he and i were too young for this kind of responsiblity all at once.
I guess he got a sense of freedom by cheating with some ugly girl he worked with. I found out and moved out into my parents house for a while.
He realized after a week or so that I was who he really wanted and begged to come back. He "says" that he didnt like her, she was just there. I told him to go F yourself and that I was going to find a better man.
Days past with begging crying ect...from him, and I of course missed him too. I told him though, that I will only take him back on my terms.
Terms were: You quit your job and find another(away from that Hoe), You cant go out anywhere again without me,(like bars, movies, fun stuff), because thats how it started. I use to allow him to do whatever he wanted because I trusted him. One day he just didnt come home and thats when I knew. Anyway...
If he had a problem with this he can leave whenever he wants, and that I have no problem finding someone new.(I only said it to make him realize that I am better than that and that he cant keep taking me for granted.)
Well...we've been together now for almost 8 yrs now. He still obide by these terms. Now he is the one insecure because I look better than ever, and he sees many great looking guys hit on me, check me out...right in front of him. HE tells me everyday that he regrets what he did, and he has never done it since then. He come straight home after work, he doesnt even go to his moms house without me. I told him there is no excuse possible that can allow him to go without me, No even" Im going to visit my mom". Once that happens, Hes out.
BUT REMEMBER, IF HE DOES IT MORE THAN ONCE, HE WILL NEVE CHANGE, EVEN IF HE BEGS AND CRIES. oNE TIME, OKAY, PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES, BUT IF THEY MAKE THE SAME ONE TWICE, THEY WILL KEEP DOING IT.
MY BESTFRIENDS HUSBAND CHEATS AND CHEATS, AND CHEATS, AND AFTER THE 20TH TIME OF GETTING CAUGHT SHE STILL IS WITH HIM. sHE SAYS ITS BECAUSE IT HER BABIES DADDY, BUT THATS NO EXCUSE. tHERE ARE MANY MEN OUT THERE WHO WILL BE FAITHFUL SO DONT TORTURE YOURSELF WITH THAT ONE MAN. MOVE ON IF HE CANT CHANGE.
2006-09-20 14:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY LADY HAS TOLD ME SHE WOULD NEVER FORGIVE ME AND THAT SHE WOULD BREAK UP WITH ME IF SHE FOUND OUT AND THAT SHE WOULD NEVER TALK TO ME AGAIN...IVE CHEATED MORE THAN A HANDFULL OF TIMES AND WHEN WEVE GOTTEN IN BIG ARGUMENTS AND SHE TALKS ****...I TELL HER THAT IVE CHEATED ON HER...AND HAHAHA IM STILL TAPPIN THAT BOOTY
2006-09-20 13:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by WestCoastin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater....always a cheater! you're crazy to go back to him, because you will get hurt again. don't be naive. plenty of fish in the sea. i tiger doesn't change his stripes. seriously think about what you're doing here.
2006-09-20 13:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by dom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater, my answer would probably be NO
2006-09-20 13:43:32 · answer #11 · answered by cinderjo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋