I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are experiencing long distance relationship. I love him, but I'm feeling someone else. Should I give the 1 I'm feeling a chance?
2006-09-20 06:39:13 · 13 answers · asked by *LaDy C* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that if it's been four years and you love him and he's far, you have to still uphold what a close relationship entails, and this means no getting with some other dude if you have one already. Long distance relationships require trust and communication. do you still feel something for your bf? if you feel more for him than for the other guy stay away from the other guy. act as if he is right there with you. which one would you pick? if you answer the other guy I think maybe it's time that you speak to your bf and just talk this out. just always remember to think before you act and how you would feel if you were in his place. would you like it if he was thinking about cheating on you? the moment you decided to have this releationship with him even though he was far away you committed yourself to how it would be. be faithful and dont do anything you wouldnt do if he were with you. impulses come and go, but what you really feel should be more important. am not saying tie yourself to the guy or anything, just that as long as you feel something for him that is stronger than all else, dont do anything stupid. you might completely mess up your chance to be happy. on the other hand, if you really want to just be out of that relationship tell him, never do anything crooked because it all comes back to you. believe me. always be upfront and speak your thoughts. in the end all is as should be.
2006-09-20 06:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by lucifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends. First, I really dont think that you are feeling this other guy because of the fact that you are in a LDR. You might just be falling out of love with him. It happens. But before you go and start a new relationship, or give this other guy a chance, you have to let your current BF go. You should not cheat on him, even if it is a long distance relationship. He will still hurt the same. I have been in a LDR for almost 2 years, and I know that I would never cheat on him. So the fact that your thinking about it, means that your current relationship has some sort of problem.
If you think its time to move on then move on, but do it the right way so nobody gets hurt in the longrun.
2006-09-20 06:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It COULD work out. Quite honestly, an hour isn't even that far away (I dated a guy for 2 years and I was 4 hours away). It all depends on the level of commitment and how much you wanna see each other. If you guys are busy with your own lives, then it's not a big deal and it could work out. If you demand too much of each other's time and company, then it's a big problem. Personally I only really go out on weekends and during the week I'm too busy to "see" whoever I'm seeing, so driving 30 minutes to an hour to see someone once or twice on a given weekend is not a big deal.
2016-03-26 23:10:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a long distance relationship now for a year with a woman in canada. It can work, you must have a lot of trust and love for your partner. My girlfriend and I are getting married next month.
2006-09-20 06:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by hoboken134 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships rarely work. Someone always meets someone nearby who is more available. Like you did.
2006-09-20 06:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm
i suggest talk with ur boyfriend and see if there s a future with him
if he s not certain
i say go for it
i was once in a long distance relationship
she was in australia and i was in the usa
we stood together because there was a future between us
i must say it was hard but it was well worth it
2006-09-20 06:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Resolve one relationship before you get involved in another one. It makes it easier on you and less painful to that other someone. I was on the other end of it. I have never talked to her since and never will!
2006-09-20 06:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by sloop_sailor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be honest with your bf if you give this new guy a chance. for all you know, your bf might be seeing someone else as well. that might tell you something about your current bf if you're having feelings for this new guy????? be honest with yourself and your bf girl!
2006-09-20 06:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by dom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it off with the long distance realsonship..first he deserves that at least!!! i know how hard long distance realsonships are//tell me i know!! shoot maybe its me..i get confused with love at times too!!
2006-09-20 06:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by chas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont spoil your love for a one night's stand. it is very difficult to find true love. if you decide to leave your partner then tell him first. dont cheat on him.
2006-09-20 06:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by atahsina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋