How to get men to stop staring?

Question

Ok, so I have a triple D chest and Im tall and curvy. I am so sick and tired of men staring like they've never seen boobs before. I don't dress like a whore I wear nice clothes but Im not going to wear baggy t shirts either just because there are some pervs out there. I have thought about reduction surgery but have heard some horror stories also. Is there anything I can say to them or do to make them stop?

Answer 1

In one word............NO.

Hopefully you will impress them with your brain instead of your boobs.....if not nice to know you have something to fall back on as a reference in any conversation. So how big are these Triple D's and if you ever want to find out how serious they are then ask them within the first minute on what color eyes you have....if they answer that correctly, that may mean you have a keeper on your hands.

Answer 2

I have double d boobs and know exactly what you are talking about. I don't think you need a breast reduction because you should feel good about yourself the way you are. there are always going to be those pervs out there that make you feel like a piece of meat. What I do is just pretend you don't see them, and keep walking there is really nothing you can do or say to them men will be pervs until the day they die so keep you head up and know you are beautiful and one day you can walk around an not even notice those jerks.

Answer 3

Try dressing modestly. I suggest covering everything the tshirt covers. a v neck might be ok, as long as it doesn't dip down too low. also when you are bra shopping, look for bras that reduce the size of breast appearances. You may have to change your wardrobe a little bit. you may be dressing a little flashy. check it. are you wearing tight shirts? have some space between your skin and your shirts. that might help. also have some current interchangeable fashions in your closet you can switch out. the most important thing to do though if you dont' want to look like your'e "on the menu" is to KEEP ON SHOPPING. 99% of girls fail to do this when they hit up the mall. as for reduction surgery, I'd do alot of research instead of listening to horor stories and ask for references of patients who have had it done. it's a procedure that you immediately see a difference in the way you look and feel. I saw a documentary on it and the patient was happy with the result and was ok. I don't know what her size was before or after but she was glad she did it. Research some local doctors in the area who can do the procedure and shop around. interview the paitients.

Answer 4

First of all you should avoid thinking that the people are staring at you. If you will look around and see other people the other will also look at you.
God has made everybody different. If you have money go for breast reduction. But then the males will find you attractive and stare at you again. My question is what will you do after that. So don't worry about your boobs.
Good luck

Answer 5

Men will continue staring.
Although, what you can do is just tell them to grow up and stare at something else. But confronting them and calling them out infront of a group, it'll for sure shut them up and keep their eyes elsewhere.
About the reduction, only get it if you're experiencing back pain or whatever. Don't do it to just get men to stop staring, it's not worth the pain or recovery time.

Answer 6

Unfortunately it's never going to stop. I don't blame you for thinking of breast reduction, but you should embrace what God gave you. There are always going to be other things that guys will look at. If your attractive, that is the way it is. They probably look at your butt too but your walking away so you don't see it. Which is exactly what you should do all the time. Just pretend that you don't see them. I know it's hard, but changing your body because of them is not the way. I bet your beaustiful, and it would be a shame to ruin that just because of glances thrown your way.

And also what the guy before me said ;)

Answer 7

If you're a fox, you'll never get them or me to stop looking. There's nothing wrong with looking at an attractive woman, in my opinion!
We are all not pervs. I am sure you have checked out some mens abs etc. Does that make you a perv? It's called a natural instinct.

Answer 8

Well..you could get a breast reduction operation, that would lower some of it, I know of your fears,,hey you ever heard of that Child Star "Punky brewster"? Well when she grew up , so did her breast and it was so bad she had back problems because of the weight of them and she had a breast reduction, as for stopping men from staring, well, it sounds like you are a very actractive women, if thats the case, you cant stop it, men are going to stare, accept it,,I know thats harsh but I deal in reality, But look at it this way, amny women would who are not as attractive as you would love to trade places with you. I know that at times, beauty can be a curse, but many women would love to have that curse.
i hope this helps.

Answer 9

You can't control what other people do. Don't do anything crazy like surgery just because men are looking at you.
Men are stimulated by sight. That's how we are made and wired.
You may just need to make up your mind not to be bothered by it.
I'm sure that there are a lot of women that wished they got the stares that you get.

Answer 10

Not really. Some guys have no class. You should endeavor to not let it bother you because, short of making a huge scene, there is little you can do to stop someone from staring (or at least looking). Even if you made a huge scene, it would still be in response to the guy looking at you, so you would already be upset before you said word one.