Ok.So i know there are people out there that are jelous and i want real answers from people that know what im talking about.For example, whenguy friends are checking out a girl,i laugh and mess around with them and say stuff like "damn shes hot!".Or if I spot a pretty girl I tell my guy friends "Hey look at the girl".Me and my guy used to be like that until our relationship started getting serious.If a girl passes by i think "hey shes cute",he'll say "hey shes cute".Even though I know this it bothers me.theres no doubt that i dont trust him.I do but it feels like a punch to the stomach.Or his friends will try and take him out to a club,i assume he is going to dance with pretty girls,and again,he wouldnt cheat on me but the thought of him going out with his friends gets to me.He reassures me and tells me he would never do anything with such sincerity in his eyes.If i asked him not to go he wont go.how can i work my jelousy issues?has anybody gone through this? How can i gethrough this?
2006-09-20 06:16:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im having a similar problem kinda. But instead of telling you to "grow up" like the *** above me. Ill say first that this society is a single persons society. It has to be hard for men because they have only pretty women all around, ads, strip clubs, tv, adult stores etc. You shouldnt joke around about "shes hot" and whatnot. Then when you do get serious, you can see that the guy would assume you wouldnt care cuz of how he knows you as. I think that if you just popped it on your guy about how you feel he'd just see you as a jealous person and youll eventually drift apart. Unless he really cares, but if he really did, I think he would stop going to clubs & things of that nature cuz he would understand how in affects you. like my fiance did. if you want, maybe I can help you more. my e-mail is llaspina@comcast.net hope I did something.
2006-09-20 06:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truly believe that anyone who has feelings for someone is going to be jealous of them to a certain extent. You just have to trust the one you are with and until he gives you reason not to, then there shouldn't be a problem. All of us have insecurities about ourselves, because no matter how good looking we are, there is always someone else out there more attractive, but you have to remember that he is with you for reasons other than your looks, so don't sweat the small stuff.....be yourself, that's what he fell in love with. Most guys think that self-confidence is a beautiful characteristic, so just know what you got and work it girl.......good luck
2006-09-20 06:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by dixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he does cheat when he goes out with his friends it's on him you will know he is. Just don't start snooping around that was my mistake because believe it or not men have a conscious and a mind and they feel guilty when they do cheat so maybe he will realize what a good thing he has with you if he does decide to cheat !
2006-09-20 07:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys dont think that deeply. He knows it was okay to talk to you like that before so he probably still does it. Or he is doing it to make you jealous if he knows it bugs you. If you have asked him to stop and he still does it then he is not he right guy for you, because he doesnt respect you. Trust is evertyhing in a relationship, if you cant trust him move on.
2006-09-20 06:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by TRISHTHEDISH76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not trying to be rude, but you brought that up on your self.
Your mistake was making those type of comments about girls in front of him so he pretty much got used to that, and now he thinks it's ok for him to say it too.
And honey when guys go out to clubs of course they dance, and talk to other females, but the most important thins is that he comes home to you and only you.
So my advice to you is that u need to act cool and nonchalant when he makes any type of comments that get on your nerves.
2006-09-20 06:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to console yourself, ask him not to go some of the time (not all), see if you can go with sometimes, ask him not to say anything about pretty girls for a while...
I don't know much else. I'm a jealous person but not over the same things... good luck honey
2006-09-20 06:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha...that grew to become into one trouble-free feeling all human beings have! ok, my answer is in simple terms attempt to maintain your self busy with something. each time they talk, in simple terms think of that "he's not greater mine" and initiate up doing some artwork. on the comparable time this could grow to be one million +ve factor on your weigh down to insult you...as quickly as, in the event that they arrive to understand that their communique is making you experience undesirable. they initiate up doing it continuously. in simple terms think of that leaving you is his badluck!! on no account think of of the previous....go away it the place you have left it! that's all. stay happy. stay cool!! Have an impressive day.
2016-10-15 05:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-20 06:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to trust him especially if he is sincere with you. Place in your mind that you can trust him to not do anything that would harm your relationship
2006-09-20 06:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him until he gives you a reason not to.
2006-09-20 06:21:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋