i got out of a 5 year relationship a few months ago, and im finding it hard to be outgoing about dating...i feel like i lost my game, what should i do?
2006-09-20 06:07:22 · 17 answers · asked by Amandy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lost your game, come on. What game? You're pretty damn hot, and that's all you need. Look at all these losers here telling you to email them, and sh*it. See? It doesn't take a game. You won't have any problem.
2006-09-22 05:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by stringemuphigh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that is your picture indeed then, believe me, it wont be too hard to meet anyone. You may want to take it one step at a time. start slow, try to meet people in daytime activities (park, library, university, coffee house)
Dont need to flirt or be all over anyone. Just a look and a smile should be more than enough to start. Remember, right not its all about building confidence, not because you needed but because with confidence you will be able to make a better choiche when it comes to guys.
If you are looking just for fun, any nightime activity will do (clubbing) if you are looking for a relationship any daytime activity will allow you to get to know the guy (more talk, less to do, no much time, place or booze for him to make up stuff or try to foll you)
Good luck!
2006-09-20 06:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you need a confidence boost. Go out with a group of friends. Flirt a little and then go home alone. After a few successful trips out, your confidence will increase and then your set to go. good luck. And BTW if that is in fact your pic---You'll have no problems.
2006-09-20 06:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by just1more 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow, you were in a relationship for 5 years and that is good lenght of time. To feel how you are feeling is perfectly fine.
2006-09-20 06:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by Stephen L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm
I suggest you just get out there and meet new people... do activities, take some classes, join some social clubs, meet different people. you will date again when you are ready..
check out www.meetin.org
its a good starting place
2006-09-20 06:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by ssmirk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get back into the game!
Remember the hardest thing for you to accully do is the right thing!
just because something is hard or is challenging your mind and your self being isn't any excuse!
JUST DO IT!
Will power!
this site might help
coping.org!
Good luck!
You can do it! you will do it! you are doing it now!
Mad luv~
2006-09-20 06:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u shuold take things slow or go out wiv u m8ts and av a gd time u might just get ur confidence bk then
2006-09-20 06:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you come to the last page you close the book. :)
2006-09-20 06:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by No Saint 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just smile the guys will be all over you I would say good luck but you don't need it
2006-09-20 06:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your really hot. E-mail me at "Darthmarth2@yahoo.com)
2006-09-20 07:09:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋