I feel like he doesnt love me anymore because of my weight. i have gained 20 pounds in 2 years... He used to love me and cuddle me and always want to touch me and kiss me he used to look at me like ..oh i cant even explaine it just like he could never get enough of me like he really loved me. now he barely touches me no more look not much of anything but fighting and yelling and crying... i weigh 135 and used to weigh 115 2 years ago.. what do i do
2006-09-20 06:07:19 · 9 answers · asked by TEMPTRESS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can't make anyone love you, find someone that loves you unconditionally.
2006-09-20 06:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by hermosa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.... obesity is the number one turn off for me, but 135 is less than I weigh and I have no problem with a girl weighing even 145 if she is tall. So unless you are under 5 feet tall or something, you should still be very attractive :)
Talk to him about and ask him point blank if you are still beautiful to him, or if he thinks you should lose some weight.
2006-09-20 13:17:15 · answer #2 · answered by kenny_the_bomb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what your boyfriend felt for u is lust if it was real love he'd probably wouldn't have noticed. of course it's how u carry yourself. let him know that u think that u're still the end all be all, and that he's expendable (you could find someone else easily if he messes up), even if he's not. i'm over 250 lbs. and haven't gone 4 months w.out a bf since 4th grade. i'm a senior now, think about it
2006-09-20 14:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first get some self respect because you shouldnt need him to make you feel good about yourself.
I suspect that the worse you feel about your relationship the more you eat. Once you start to feel about your self then he will want you more, you will start to lose weight and you know what if he doesn't it wont matter because you will be hot and self assured and guys will be falling over themselves to be with you....
but first you stop attaching your self respect to how much your boyf likes you
2006-09-20 13:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by jonny_nowhere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is tru tht u cant make n/e 1 do n/e thing. im kinda n the same situation, but its my x bf. ur not fat so dont tell urself tht. 135 is fine. i weigh more than tht & my bf wuz fine w/ the way tht i lookd. he alwayz said tht i wuz beautiful & whnevr sm1 wld call me fat, he wld jump all ovr them & get mad. n/e wayz, if he dsnt appreciate u bc of wut u look like, then hun, u need 2 drop kic his a$$. looks rnt everything evn tho sm ppl may think tht thry r. try tlkn 2 him & ask him abt it.
2006-09-20 13:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by Jeanette (juh-net) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you have problem with your health then exersize. you should be always fit. now if your boyfriend doesnpt like you cause you are fat , then get slim and dump him. that wil teach him a lesson.
2006-09-20 13:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how tall are you? if your like 5'8 and over 135 is fine
2006-09-20 13:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by Savannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you CAN'T make anyone do anything.
2006-09-20 13:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose weight or are u ok with your self?
2006-09-20 13:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by shantel g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋