Ive been with my man for over three years, latley Ive noticed that the sex has died down, we dont kiss passionatly like we use to, we barely snuggle at night anymore. He always tells me how much he loves me and gives me pecks on the lips, he calls me babe and always wants me to chill with him like watch movies with him and watch him play computer games he enjoys my company, he is a great guy and I love him too, however what has happen to the fire we once had when we couldnt keep our hands and lips off of each other, is he getting comfortable? I really miss those times
2006-09-20 06:06:25 · 11 answers · asked by Christina B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
communication gap is widening. try to reduce by interaction.
2006-09-20 06:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOHH GIRL! That is called complacity, and it happens in every relationship (mine includede). The reason you're all over eachother when you first start dating is because its new and 'exciting'. Now you know eachother well, things have calmed down and the sex life is kinda blase. This is normal, but DO try to recommend things to spice up your sex life a bit. I am sure you are creative and can conjure up something. That will pique his interest and then you'll see the fire burning strong. But its kinda like ice cream, you love it when you get it, but you dont want to eat it at every meal. Add a little whip cream and cherry, then you might reconsider eating it a couple times a day. He's probably just bored of the same flavor.
2006-09-20 13:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by Robin R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that with any relationship, especially after the first year, things do start to die down, it's natural. I think it's good that he still wants to be with you and hang out with you - that's a good sign but maybe you should consider doing something sexy together to get that spark back.
2006-09-20 13:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE you can start the fore play sometimes. Do me a favor cut it off 4 a week or so see if he dont want it badly with lots of fire.(time apart is good too)
2006-09-20 13:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure your a woman .my girlfriend is like that too i thought only women lose their sex drive .only wanting to cuddle and talk and spend time together. i could only wish to have her to jump my bones on a regular basis with out any coaxing.
normally its like trying to find combination to a bank vault.
2006-09-20 13:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by c20_6929 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both comfortable. If you miss it, initiate it, why is it you feel that your man who has to initiate the passion? Go for it girl.
2006-09-20 13:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's a comfort thing. Try new things... buy sexy clothes. Dance for him. If you're not trying he won't. Make it interesting. If that doesn't work, you can always ask what's wrong!
2006-09-20 13:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by Pimp E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno, it just happens I guess... Don't know if it's even possible to maintain the same level ov intensity for the rest of your life. Relationships are not only about passion, there are a lot of other great things about them.
2006-09-20 13:13:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u need 2 spend time apart, i went through that b4 and it worked, good luck
2006-09-20 13:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try different things in bed to spice things up maybe that will help
2006-09-20 13:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jorgio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋