I've only been with a man I met on the internet for just over 2 weeks and we've completely fallen for each other...is it possible to recognise your soul-mate in such a short time?
2006-09-20 06:05:48 · 30 answers · asked by Sara B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I felt exactly the same way...now I'm divorced.
Isn't life crap
x
2006-09-20 07:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by tom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I knew the same day I met my husband that we would spend our lives together. We were pretty much living together within the week and have now been married 24 years.
But it serves to note that we'd both dated many other people and both had fairly rich, fulfilled lives as independent people when we met. You want to make sure you're not just leaping into a relationship not to be alone.
Also, it's helpful to put yourself in situations where you and your potential mate interact as individuals with others -- like in a sport or some sort of hobby or interest. You can discover a lot about a person by seeing what others think of him, and how he presents himself to other people. I don't think you can tell just from what happens with the two of your interacting in seclusion, away from other people and real life situations. A person might just be very good at presenting himself one-on-one -- but to know what he's really like, you need to be able to observe him "in the wild."
2006-09-20 13:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hun, i asked a question like this yesterday (check my questions) and if id have answered this 3 weeks ago id have said no, but I understand now, that with a soulmate, it is instant, I knew after 2 days. So there you go, dont let anyone tell you you are stupid, cos if you feel it then its real, just make sure you are careful. I wish you all the luck in the world. xxxxxxxxxxx (may I also just say that we have yet to find annoying habits about our soulmates, so dont let it get you down about the whole thing when you do, they are not perfect, just like us) xx
2006-09-20 13:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. I met the woman who would become my wife and dated her for 4 years to make sure we got to know each other before we took the "leap". We lasted 4 years and now I will spend the next few years paying off everything she took from me. Love doesn't really exist. People with common principles and characteristics might be able to connect at first and think they are in love but once you live with that person for a few years you will begin to see the differences and will eventually divorce. The people I know who have successful marriages are those who aren't around each other like couples who work different hours of the day rather than 9-5.
2006-09-20 13:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by roshambo76 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Within 2 minutes engaged and living together less than 4 weeks after our first date now been together 21 years married for 19
2006-09-20 13:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is, I met my man on the internet, and knew within a couple of weeks we were made for each other. We've been together almost 5 years now, and just celebrated our 1st wedding anniversary
2006-09-20 13:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mas 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes in my experience it is possible,as I met my husband when I was fifteen and within less then a week we were smitten.
We have two lovely sons and will be married 25 years in 07/.We never fell out of love and we do everything together,their is not one day that goes by without telling one another and our sons how much we are loved.
2006-09-20 13:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by quigleymarion 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel as the same thing has happened to me before.
Just becareful tho and at the same time enjoy yourself. Cherish every moment if you have found someone special.
I do believe that ppl have soulmates and there is someone right out there for everyone, but we dont always find them in the right order. x
2006-09-20 13:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by passionate_angel101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I knew within days of dating my wife. We were friends for a long time before then though.
You may be sure that he is the one, but give it time and take it slow anyway. You just met this guy, and it was over the internet. Make sure you really have a chance to get to know him before diving into any commitment. He could be a murderer, rapist, pedophile, etc. So be careful.
2006-09-20 13:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by trovanhawk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband of 21 years proposed to me on our second date and we're sill crazy bout each other. We were married within 4 1/2 months and no I wasn't pregnant.
2006-09-20 17:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by diamond Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online Chatting is a very misleading form of communication at times.I got together with my bf coz i thought he was so like me while chatting. Now that we have broken off, I forget the reasons why we hooked up in the first place. I am happy there are so many success stories and I wish you luck and prosperity. ....but be careful...
2006-09-20 17:38:35 · answer #11 · answered by camaybar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋