All she does is eat eat eat. Today I woke her up and without saying anything she just goes I need donuts! as soon as her eyes open! lol! She does not even hesitate and say like "Why did you wake me up?" just donuts! it was so stupid and all day every 30 minutes shes goes back to the fridge and gets more more more... Shes a big fat lazy pig she also does no house work no cooking all she does is sleep eat and poop its pathetic!
2006-09-20 06:05:04 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you hate your mom? Sheesh, grow up.
2006-09-20 06:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sheik Yerbouti 4 · 2⤊ 5⤋
Do research on the consequences and bad effects of obesity. Then get examples of obese people and what happened to them. Tell her what you find. Let her know that you are concerned and worried about her health. Assure her that you are there for her and you would like to help her lose weight to feel better. Obesity is a disorder, probably stemming from emotional trauma. Don't ever tell her she is a big old fat pig, that will just make it worse. Be there for her and encourage her as much as possible. Make meals for her that are healthy, and become her work-out buddy. You need to take steps to help her so that you don't lose her.
2006-09-20 06:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by 1big teddy graham 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well calling her an old fat pig is really going to HELP. I hope you don't call her that. Let her know how nuch you love her and want her to be around for you. If she is really heavy that may be why she can't get up to do house work and cook. Let her know your concerns in a loving way. If you love her and worry about her health that is. If worst comes to worst go live with a relative or move out. She then will have to get up and do things for herself or she can call for house aid if her health is at risk.
2006-09-20 06:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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My MOM is a big old fat pig! HELP!?
All she does is eat eat eat. Today I woke her up and without saying anything she just goes I need donuts! as soon as her eyes open! lol! She does not even hesitate and say like "Why did you wake me up...
2015-02-03 14:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remove all the fatty food from the house and if she complains about it, tell her you are trying to help her and I would try and make sure she sees a Doctor and get some help or she won't be around much longer.
If she won't get help, call 911 on her. Tell them what ever comes to mind, like she is having a hard time breathing or she is choking or you can't wake her up.
2006-09-20 06:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by greg76991 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Tell her how you feel. I wouldn't use the words "big, old, fat, pig" but something like, "I love you and am worried about you and your eating habits and weight."would probably work. Get together numbers or sites for over eaters anonymous and the such. She might not be open to it at first (would you like someone pointing out your weight issues?) but hopefully she can see it's because you love her and wants whats best for her. (Which I hope is the reason and not embarrassment!)
2006-09-20 06:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your mom you're talking about! Chances are she's depressed over something; help her get motivated, ask her to mabee join you in an afternoon stroll around the block! Try talking to her and letting her know that your concerned about her health, that you need her to be in your life for a long time! Don't critisize her by speaking badly towards her! Help Her! YOU WILL ONLY HAVE ONE MOM! (Words To Remember)
2006-09-20 06:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by shelly_mo67 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So what are YOU doing to help her? Your Mom is in a severe depression and now she has to deal with a self involved whining little kid like you, why don't you get off you lazy *** and help with the house or any siblings you have...you need to grow up and stop thinking about how it affects you and start thinking of ways to help you Mom.
2006-09-20 06:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by SirenSings 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Got news for you honey! Most young women grow up to be just like MOM! To be fair, most young men inherit a lot of traits from their fathers too.
You can't change or control HER, but you can certainly do something about yourself!
Instead of counting how many trips she makes to the fridge, ask yourself if you do it too many times yourself.
You criticize her housework, but what does YOUR room look like? If she never cooks then what does she eat? Are YOU doing the cooking?
Try a little less talk & a little more action.
2006-09-20 06:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters you need to learn a little respect kid..
sounds as if your mother is in some kind of deep depression. she needs help not you being a critical ***.
maybe if her kid included her in some of the things that go on she would come out of it and start doing things again.. where is your dad. or your grandparents. if someone cared at all they would get her some help instead of critizing her all the time. do you not know how to cook and clean..? help out keep you living area clean . Maybe she is just sick and tired of cleaning up after uncaring people that don't appreciate her..
get her to the doctor and get her some counciling she needs your help now. do something instead of the petty bitching.
2006-09-20 06:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your mom is depressed. Ever think about getting her counseling or showing some compassion for her or are you just so perfect you can cut her down? Maybe you can get some counseling too while you are at it. Try to remember she is your mom and show some respect to her. If how you remark on here is how you treat her in real life then shame on you!
2006-09-20 06:12:34 · answer #11 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋