should i ask my to marry me???? i know i love her but we've only been seeing eachother for a little while..... i know i wanna spend the rest of my life with her but is it too soon??? please help me...
2006-09-20 06:01:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have these neighbors, an old retired couple, who have been married for 51 years. They met in Vegas, she was a waitress, he was on leave from the Marines. They literally got married 13 hours after they met, and have been ever since.
Point is, 13 hours, 13 days, 13 months or 13 years, the only right time to know if you should spend the rest of your life with someone is when your heart tells you. If you do this, just be sure that you have the tenacity to stick it out NO MATTER what the future brings. Marraige is a sacred union and too many people these days consider it disposable, especially when the 'going gets tough'.
PROPOSE!! Let me know how you did it, if you do..
2006-09-20 06:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by Robin R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's a little while? A week, month? I was engaged after 5 months, we moved in together, an were married almost a year later... 3 years and counting, so far so good. If you love her, and know that it's right, maybe bring up the subject see how she reacts. If you get the impression from her that it might be too soon, wait a little while... Then ask.
2006-09-20 06:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't possibly know that you want to marry her after only dating for "a little while."
Honey, this is the real world, it's not a movie with a fairytale ending. I suggest you date this person for a LONG while before you make such a big commitment.
2006-09-20 06:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should really give it some more time before you get married. Things may seem like gold now but trust me people change after a lifetime of being together.
2006-09-20 06:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by shyhonney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a little too soon wait a month or two to make absolutely sure and to make sure she feels the same way and to make sure you know every detail about each other i wouldn't want to marry someone i didn't know and if you do ask her good luck
2006-09-20 06:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by formerffagirl05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NNNNOOOOO..... ya ya we always say that we love that other person but you really need to wait and test the relatiionship. what if she doesnt agree on alot of the things you agree on? there is so much to say about this but i was with this guy for 2 n 1/2 years and he asked me to marry him and from ythat point every thing went wrong we found out alot about eachother that we didnt agree on so i would say NO wait really really get to know her i know you might think you know everything but you dont so my adivce is to wait
2006-09-20 06:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by broken hearted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you think she is feeling you. If she is not as into you as you are into her, if you ask her to marry you, you may scare her away. If you know in your heart that she loves you just as much as you love her, then go for it. There is no such thing as "too soon" when love is involved.
2006-09-20 06:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by forever charmed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have already answered your question its way to soon. if you do something your not ready for there could be some possible issues in the future take your time relax and if you love her and want to marry her tell her that you want to be with her in the future but in your own words
2006-09-20 06:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead man. . . if you've found a woman you love. . are compatable with. . and want to spend the rest of her life with. . .just tell her how you feel. . and ask her. . good luck!
2006-09-20 06:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that your baby in the picture? If so...you're expired, you need to marry her now! lol j/k
Go with your gut feeling, but take your time to make sure it's the right decision (for the both of you)
2006-09-20 06:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by Chanel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋