"run thier course" and then they are over? Do you think people enjoy being with someone for a while and then just want to be "free" again. My BF used to love being around me he always wanted me close to him he looked at me with this look in his eyes like he could never get enough of me like he REALLY loved me and we spent alot of time alone. He was always smieling and happy and holding me. Now he smiles with his friends and yells at me he never looks at me like that anymore he doesnt pull me close and he barely touches me anymore. He tells me he loves me and wants to marrie but i dont know weather to believe him or not. Has our relationship just "run its course"?? help please just advice please serious advice
2006-09-20 06:00:13 · 20 answers · asked by TEMPTRESS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WE LIVE TOGETER WE HAVE FOR A YEAR AND A HALF WE HAVE BEEN ENGAGED TWICE I HAVE TALKED TO HIM HE YELLS AND LEAVES IVE TRIED TO GET HIM TO SEE ATHERAPIST WITH ME HE WONT...
2006-09-20 06:19:25 · update #1
Totally agree with that.
People HAVE to understand that it isn't necessarily a BAD thing for people to move on and find somebody else. That opens the door for new people and new friends into your life.
And who knows, that new person may just be THE one.
2006-09-20 06:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to measure frendships and relationships on this basis...
Some are for a lifetime and some are just for a season.
The seasonal relationships ALWAYS "run their course". They have a beginning, and they have an end. You're always supposed to leave with a lesson, from the seasonal relationships because they are never pointless (even if the actual person is...the lesson is never pointless)
The lifetime, has a beginning, but these people will be with you for the rest of your life. They are like the roots of a tree. You may have only 2 or 3 of them, but without them, the tree can't survive. You'll know who these people are because they don't want to hurt you, and if they do something to hurt you, they'll do everything in their power to make it up to you, and in your heart, you'll know if it was truly a "mistake". Also, the life time people, if they should ever cause you pain, they won't again. They'll work hard to make you a happy person instead of someone who is down or should ever doubt their love.
From what you told me, sounds like your boyfriend has some serious issues. His season might be up, and that's OK, because it will open the door for a lifetime person to restore. You don't deserve what he is giving you, and I know you know that because you asked a question about it on here. Listen to your heart and let go. It will all get better soon.
2006-09-20 13:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Chanel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found the lady of my dreams 3 years ago and things are still getting better everyday!!! The only problem we have in our relationship is that we enjoy spending time with each other too much!! We have the same interests. . . same high intellect. . .same drive. . . we are truley soul mates. We were supposed to meet some friends for golf last saturday. . .. we decided to get a quickie in before getting out of bed. . . . then we decided on one more quickie after getting out of the shower. . . . then one more before leaving. . . . well. . . . we ended up calling our friends. . .cancelling on golf. . . and made love all morning and into the afternoon. Went for a bike ride to the park for a picnic. . . then came home and made love in the afternoon. . .. then went to dinner and a movie. . . . pulled the car into a parking lot on the way home. . . . made love like high school kids. . . . . then came home and did it again!!!! Our passion gets stronger everyday and there is no change in sight! So. . .YES. . . people can stay together. . . . love and passion DO NOT have to die!! You just need to find the right person and be willing to work at it. Just a side note. . . . neither me or my lady whored around before meeting each other so sex, passion, love. . and all that go with it still mean something to us. GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-20 13:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all relationships at first feel great its like "the dating mode" some can feel stronger that others you have dated in the past. maybe he just wants some space but dont no how to tell you so he acts like he dont want you around. it could just be a ruff patch between you 2.or it could just mean the end. your never going to no unless you talk to him and tell him how you feel. and ask him what he is playing at if he thinks that every think is ok.
good luck
2006-09-20 13:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear, a good question is that do u want to spend the rest of your life for him to yell at u? talk to him gently but firmly on how u feel. if he doesn't listen tell him this is going to take a toll on the relationship. perhaps he is facing some problems on hand that is why he became like this. worst come to worse u really need to move on.
2006-09-20 13:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not ALL relationships, but many, even MOST of them do. In this case, it may just be over. Then again, all relationships have their tough spots also. He may be going through something. Talk to him about it and take comfort in the fact that you tried.
In that case, then yes, it's probably time to end it.
2006-09-20 13:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by yumyum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wen ur in a new relationship, everything works like magic, but wen theres true love, dat magic never fades away, u dont move on...u dont get attracted 2 ne 1...
u still love him da way u used to...but he finds other things in life more interesting den U...
he tells u he loes u n wud marry u 1 day...but DOES HE MEANS DAT ?????
he's telling u all dis 2 make u follow him all da time n he shud enjoy his life...
talk 2 him...tell him how u feel...or else move on
2006-09-20 13:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, having spaghetti every single night can get boring. The trick is to find different ways to serve it.
2006-09-20 13:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't believe relationships "run their course".. i think that some ppl just love to be in love.. i've been in this situation before. think about it, we're teens.. he's probably told other girls he's been with that he loves them and he'd like to marry them.. your relationship hasn't run its course, maybe you two just arent meant to be, that means there's someone out there better for you.
2006-09-20 13:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No of course not...
Every healthy relationship has fights
Maybe you should just have a heart to heart with him
2006-09-20 13:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by Hex W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋