I'm waiting for my guy to ask me back. We broke up about 2 weeks ago b/c he thinks I'm too clingy. I stopped contacting him in any way 3 days ago. He's kind of shy, not really popular with girls. I was his 1st gf in his 21 years and we've been together for 9 months. But he has a lot to do, coursework, house duties, etc. So even without a gf he is almost always occupied. I just wonder how long would it take for a guy like that to want me back if he ever wants to take me back?
Thanks a lot!
2006-09-20 05:33:02 · 4 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We don't know, I could tell u a month or a week, but I have no clue, give him some space wait for a lil while. Only time could tell. Good luck.
2006-09-20 05:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its over, dear- why would he ask you back? Generally speaking- most times a break up means just that.
If you were seen as too clingy, then he didn't dig you much. You may be a distraction that he can't deal with now.
Stop "Hounding him" its over, you are only making yourself look not only "clingy and needy" but its really ruining any positive emotions he shared with you for being so pushy.
A bigger issue, Other people are watching and that could ruin the chance to met the "right" guy by watching how you handled this one.
Here's the keeper ~ Back off, Move on, {put up all the "stuff" you shared and change your routines and really get over it} in a week or so, call him to "leave a message" that you were thinking of him wanted to say "hi" and that you wish him well. And then erase that number, because you have totally released him. Do not hang out or date or "hook up"- that's just stupid- really it is.
Girl move on! This whole thing is about YOU not him, so take off. IT is over.... why degrade yourself for morsels of attention. Find a new friend, and make more of yourself with them. You never chase LOVE, if you do, then its NOT love- its obession!
Good luck!
2006-09-20 05:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he wants you back.
2006-09-20 05:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you take off your shirt
2006-09-20 05:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by T.S.R.I.P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋