We broke up 2 weeks ago. She dumped me and was a witch about everything acting like I was the one that did the breaking up. So I told her this week I couldnt take her crap anymore and I left didnt call didnt talk to her at all. Yesterday she begged me to talk to her and so I did and she begged me not go cuz she was going crazy witthout me and she said she loves me so much and I shouldnt go, but I did anyways. Was that the right thing to do? Was I wrong? What should I do?
2006-09-20 05:17:55 · 8 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a feeling there is more to the story than you are telling.
Are you two playing games with each others emotions?
If you are telling the story right, now would be a good time to decide if this is really love and if it is... is it the brand you want.
2006-09-20 05:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the two of you need to evaluate what wrong. . .if you are playing such heartbreaking games you are likley suffering from a severe lack of honest communication. You are asking this question so you clearly care for her. You are giving her silent treament as "punishment" and she clearly wither loves you very much, but, shows it very poorly. . .or she just can't stand to loose a possession (you). . . Life is so precious and we should value those in our lives and hold onto the moments and the people that illuminate our days with color and life. Honestly, take soem time to spend togehter, talk openly, see if you really have a friendship that can walk through fire and you wont have to ask a question because indside you'll already know the answer.
2006-09-20 12:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did right...and move on and don't look back. It's just a ploy to get you back and if she was a 'witch' before hon...she'll still be a witch after she dries her tears that lure you back.
Move on down the road ...away from her...she'll only cry and go crazy long enough to find the next man she'll be a witch towards.
2006-09-20 12:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by svmainus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, playing hard-to-get is acceptable...especially if your partner is a self-centered and selfish person...don't feel guilty coz i'm sure that she did not feel guilty when she broke up with u...all she cares is about her...she thinks that the world revolves around her...why is she begging to get back to u? maybe there's something that she wants frm u...so, don't give in easily...just chill and let the gal realise that good guys are not toys that can be bought just like that!
good luck!
2006-09-20 12:25:47 · answer #4 · answered by cuteangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must have been a reason as to why you guys broke up... If she loves you and you love her try to work things out.. But if you feel you are a better person without her then move on..Do what you feel in your heart is right for you not her...
2006-09-20 12:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is either nuts or manipulative and hopefully she can get help for it...but that help should not come from you. If anyone else treated you like that, would you stand for it?
BTW. I think you did the right thing.
2006-09-20 12:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by cindy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think tht it wuz the rite thing 2 do. u shldve stayed w/ her. if u love her as mch as she loves u, then u wld b willing 2 wrk abt wutevr u need 2 get wrkd out..............i rly need 2 take my own advice
2006-09-20 13:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jeanette (juh-net) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, what was the reason for the break up? if she cheated, yeah, you did the right thing. if it's over a silly fight, you should have stayed and talked it out.
2006-09-20 12:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋