Recently my Girlfriend and I have broke up.. This time it's over for good.. I still love her and would like to pursue our relationship but I have done to many things in our past that she cannot forgive or forget... Should i just let her go and give her space??
2006-09-20 05:16:54 · 6 answers · asked by BEE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give her space, maybe she will forgive you but don't be pushy.
2006-09-20 05:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Baby #1 born August 2009 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over someone is to stop thinking about the good times you've had and start thinking about all the things wrong with the relationship. The mind does a funny thing when relationships end, it tends to only think of the good things. You need to get past that and realize that it wasn't ALL good.
Another good way is to get back into the game of dating. Just go out and have a good time. If she wnts you back she'll come, if not don't sweat it, you don't want to seem like a desperate stalker after all.
2006-09-20 12:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by tkemysterio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it some time, hang out with other people, start going to parties. Eventually you'll either forget the relationship and be able to move on. If you still have feelings for her down the road, maybe you should pursue something. But for now, enjoy your own time.
2006-09-20 12:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by Green thumb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let Go. She doesn't want to start the relationship up again and now you've got to live with the consequences. Sounds harsh yeah, but that's life.......treat others as you'd like to be treated and the good karma will come back around.
2006-09-20 12:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. You have hurt her and she may love you, but not being able to trust you or believe in you is very heartbreaking and disappointing in a person. A person wants to be able to trust and believe in the one they choose to love. You have betrayed that, and I know that *yes* you should leave her alone, back off, and give her space. If you truly love her..... then take the time to change, and then prove to her, you have changed..... and be REAL about it. Blessed be.......
2006-09-20 12:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loss of any kind is hard, so you have to allow yourself to grieve over what was lost. Then you must learn from your mistakes, or even her mistakes, so that in your next relationship you do not repeat the same patterns.
2006-09-20 12:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋