I've been seeing a guy for a little over a month. He'll break dates at the last minute and I've rearranged my schedule to accomadate him when he wanted to go out. Last night he broke another date and said we can go out sometime this weekend, he'll call and let me know when. I'm thinking of walking away and not even bothering to tell him I'm calling it quits. Or do I owe him an explanation as to why I don't want to see him anymore? How would you handle this? Please, serious replies only.
2006-09-20 05:04:51 · 18 answers · asked by dances_away_from_you 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should quit while you're ahead. You dont owe him any explanations, just walk away and leave it at that. He acts like he has a woman. So dont even deal with the drama. Just K.I.M..... keep it movin!
2006-09-20 05:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he breaks the dates, what reasons does he give? Is it something he just can't avoid? or does he tell you a reason at all? If it's unavoidable, then maybe give him another chance. If it's all so lame, I would stop seeing him & I wouldn't call. The next time he calls to squeeze you in to his very busy schedule, just tell him "I don't think so, not tonight." If he wants to know why tell him straight up that you didnt' appreciate the way he handled you. I wouldn't call him to offer the explanation, but if he calls back then you can tell him what's on your mind. Good luck!!!
2006-09-20 05:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was going through a simular situation, and the result of him continuing to break off our dates was another slow way of pushing me away to to break it off. Thats what I am guessing, because that is what happened. So mabe you should talk to him and ask why is breaking dates, or see what is that he doing instead of being on that date with you. I see it as he has to be doing something really important with his time. If he isn't I would feel rejected in a way. Thats how I feel anyway now.
2006-09-20 05:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by cherish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't owe this man anything and unless you want to spend the next few years chasing after a self obsobed, self centered jerk just don't answer when he finally reaches you explain that you are looking for someone to date not someone to wait for thank him for his time and go have a martini with lots of olives two weeks from now he'll be a joke between you and your girlfriends.
2006-09-20 05:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by Katlynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a similar situation with this guy i was seeing. he wouldn't call and i would call him wondering what was going on. i used to complain about how he should tell me if he can't make it and why is he always pulling this shyt...he always told me i was nagging him. so what i started to do was the same stuff that he did to me. He learned very quickly that he didn't like how that felt, but that was the only way that i could teach him that what he was doing wasn't right. In the end i realized that he wasn't even worth the effort and time and decided to move on.
2006-09-20 05:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by KodeNmKidzNxtDoor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a loser. Dump him, and don't contact him at all. When he figures out that he's been dumped and calls you, tell him calmly why his treatment of women is not fit for a dog. Tell him he needs to shape up for his next relationship, say bye, and hang up.
Don't answer any calls or contact him in any way after that.Only go out with nice guys from now on, men who appreciate someone to spend time with.
2006-09-20 05:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should first talk to him and tell him how you feel about him breaking dates with you and only makeing time for you when he feels like making time for you. you dont deserve a guy who would do that to you anyway but maybe if you talk to me then he will change but if he doesnt want to listen and change then explain to him that you cant date him anymore because you are tired of him breaking dates with you. Good Luck!
2006-09-20 05:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't appreciate this behavior. Let him know what you plan to do. Tell him, unless he has a good explanation, that you are breaking it off. Maybe he'll shape up. If not, you tried, right?
2006-09-20 05:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stop changing your schedule, he is not worth it. He's obviously immature. And just tell him that you think this relationship is not working out and you feel it best if you don't see each other anymore.
2006-09-20 05:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by flashypsw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would not give me another chance at another date. He is full of himself, no you don't owe him any explanation. he should be able to figure it out. Your done, and move on. Don't waste another minute of your precious time on him he is not worthy
2006-09-20 05:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋