Your support is so appreciated.
I have been talking to my husband about his kids and our problems...I am still in a turmoil. So many of you have advised me to leave...fast but I am scared!
I haven't worked for 6 years (except take care of my family) and mentally I am so down, my self esteem is shot, I have none. Not sure that I am strong enough to face a shelter again in this state.
I'm afraid to stay as well because I just don't think I can take this abuse anymore. I'm really twisted!
Today I find out that my step daughter is lying about me, saying that I was going to hit her when we had an arguement last night and that I did hit (slap) a friend that was here. WRONG!!!! I can't even step on an ant. This is to much and has been going on for to long and I am beaten down by it to the point that I can't make a decision to defend myself.
Anyway, thank you to all who care so much:-)
2006-09-20 05:02:35 · 7 answers · asked by twistedkitty15 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I did it! You can too! I am 42, with no formal training. I was in an abuse relationship with a man, and had 4 step-kids. It was a real mess. I got out, got a job, and now live in an apartment and pay my own bills with no help! You will find out that you have more friends than you think when you get out. People brought me clothes, food, dishes, sheets, etc. It was wonderful, and I could not of gotten started with out them. God Bless you! You CAN do it!! If you like you can email me.
2006-09-20 05:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by gtkaren 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better wise up young lady!!!!!! First you are letting your husband bring you down don't you know you are a human being and no one should be treated this way. You don't have to settle. There are many programs that will help you out. Stop saying you don't want to go to a shelter if that is your last choice. If you have no friends or family there you better. Those are his kids not yours and they are using you. Do you want to end up sucidical or taking antidepressents for the rest of your life? You need to gather up the skills you have and get off your butt and get a job so you can suppport yourself first. go to your local DHS agency they can help you with being in an abusive relationship. Please don't suffer for the rest of your life and live on someone else's life. Start taking money from him and putting it in a separate bank account. Stop feeling bad for yourself and do something for yourself!!!!!!!
2006-09-20 05:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Tyler&Noah's mommy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make that 1st step into taking care of YOU
2006-09-20 05:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out!!!!! who does this person and kids think they are god? not!!! you deserve better. go to a shelter and then leave your state. go somewhere and start over. no human being has to be abused in any way shape or form.
karma is a b*tch-and will come back to haunt them!!!
2006-09-20 05:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Heather G 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take care hon.
Get to a safe place.
Find a friend you can trust.
2006-09-20 05:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out & sort it all out later, while you still can.
2006-09-20 05:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by fairly smart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that little ***** i'd slap her one for that tell you husband that she has lied
2006-09-20 05:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by Huggles [mozzafan] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋