Okay it has been about 1 week that we havent talked. We didnt leave in bad terms. His excuse is that he works and goes to school so he barely has time to talk to me. But the weekend comes and he has time for his friends. I havent called him becuase everytime I do he is either busy or working. I just want an opionion on what is bound to happen is this the end. I really like him enough to let him go but I just want to know from some else's prespective. Does he not care about me?
2006-09-20 04:17:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he is busy, but he should make time to at least talk to you. Wait another week or two, if things don't change, then he's moved on...
2006-09-20 04:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by cutest_kittykat_411 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long were you together? Are you two in a relationship?
If he's not talking to you in a week, and if you are under 3 months together, I think he wants to move on.
Having time with friends is important, but he should let you know that he's having some time with his friend...and the next week will be yours.
Go look for another guy, or have fun with your friends for now.
2006-09-20 11:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he was just trying to let you go without hurting your feelings...seems he doesnt care, this should be totally obvious since whenever you call him he is busy, i think he is just trying to avoid a bad confrontation/breakup...
Also, If guys really care, they usually have a point where they even stop hanging out with their friends to be with the girl they really like/love.
Be happy it was a smooth breakup and i would suggest to move on...
Don't worry, there is that special someone out there for you :)
2006-09-20 11:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by Patience 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe that crap. if he has time to talk to his friends and spend time with them, then he has time for you. hes just using that as an excuse. men always have time to spend with their boys but when it comes to their girl, they act like they dont have time. but if he really likes/loves you then he will do anything he can to communicate with you. maybe it really is over. he probably doesnt think he owes you any time because he feels that it is over. my guy had broken up with me but he would still answer my calls but we wouldnt talk more than 5 minutes. he'd say something like "let me call you back" and never call and that hurt me so much. i really loved him. anyway i got tired of trying to make him want me and moved on. wouldnt you know he came back after 2 months thinking everything was the same. anyway it seems like the end, as i have been there before.
2006-09-20 11:59:00 · answer #4 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can't say how a person thinks but for surely he wants to get rid of you or he wants space. It's normal for one relationship to seem that its having no fun coz you're always there or with him Just try to give some space. And if he doesn't come back. Let go and let your soul find your true match.
2006-09-20 11:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by u thought u know who 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may care for you but it's time to just let go of the situation. Take his word for it if he says he's working and trying to balance school then so be it. I would say take time for your self and your friends. Don't worry about boys or men all the time youll grow old faster then you think.
2006-09-20 11:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by MIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People that say they are too busy for you and full of it. He is going to be going to school for years and probably work most of his life. Is he saying that as long as he does both he won't have time for anyone? He's gonna be alone for the entirety of his schoolastic career because he doesn't have time to date? Wrong. You're right. He will make time for what's important to him and unfortunately, you don't make that list. Sorry. Move on.
2006-09-20 11:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by Chris D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi... as u said its his excuse... think urself.. if u really hav interest in someone u will giv the first preference to him only... but he is goin on weekends with his frnds... so it better u jus get on with ur life....life is beautiful..... or else if u still like him, try to talk to him and ask what his problem is?? he may even avoid u coz of personal reasons.. apart from being busy.... all the best...
2006-09-20 11:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by kirthu 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-09-20 11:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put it this way ok? Do you really want a guy that is only 50% yours? I mean what it sounds like to me is that he is putting other things in front of you, besides just wanting to be with you. You can do better ya know? you can find a guy that all he wants is you and thats it. and he will put everything aside for you. I think you can do better.
2006-09-20 11:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋