My sister never wants to have the family dinners at her house. Because she doesn't want to the work . They are at my house or my brother house. But my sister wants to say who can come to the dinners or who can not. I told she needs to have it at her house. She acted like she didn't hear me. Is she crazy?
2006-09-20 04:11:04 · 12 answers · asked by just wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If the dinner is at your house, invite who you like. If she has a problem with who you invite, tell her she is welcome to have a dinner at her house and invite who she likes. She will hear you.
Whether she responds or not doesn't matter.
2006-09-20 04:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you all have it at your home you all have the decision authority has to whom you want at your house key words "your house".
If she wants to be the boss she should have it at hers and she can delegate as much as she pleases. You were right to tell her that she may need to hear a couple of more times so that it sinks into her membrane...
Hosting a dinner whether for family or what is a lot of work so she is being lazy she can't be the queen bee in your hive continue to let her know your feelings and act on them as well; if you don't want something at your house but she does don't do it because you don't want it... Stick to your guns. She'll soon get the drift
2006-09-20 11:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by sweetcincylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the next family dinner ask your sister when she would like to host the next family dinner - ask her what date and time works best for her. Maybe she's nervous about being a good host - especially when your brother and yourself are always hosting. Tell her you would be happy to come over before the dinner and help her set-up.
2006-09-20 11:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by OohLaLa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy like a fox. She is the smart one. I wouldn't want a house full of people to clean up after either!
2006-09-20 11:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your brother are the reliable ones to host these dinners. Invite who you want, if your sister doesn't like it she doesn't have to attend.
2006-09-20 11:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope she's just not the type that wants the responsibility of having to cook and feed everyone she likes giving orders better.
2006-09-20 11:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy? No. Selfish? Probably.
2006-09-20 11:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by Kamunyak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has no right to say who can or cannot be invited until she hosts in her own home.
2006-09-20 11:24:08 · answer #8 · answered by S G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want it at her house, fine. Just don't let her dictate who can come and who can't.
2006-09-20 11:23:06 · answer #9 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is alot of trouble to have all that mess, i'm sure that is the reason she doens't want to have it. it is to much work.
2006-09-20 11:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋