My sister is 5 years older than me. Every thing I tell her she acts like I'm telling her a lie. If I says the sky is blue she says it purple. Like her was hanging around a 35 year old woman being best friends, I told her this woman was trouble. Then every blew up she didn't know. But if she here something from someone else it the true. Why is she like this?
2006-09-20 03:44:07 · 8 answers · asked by just wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm 34 she's 39
2006-09-20 03:51:56 · update #1
I'm 34 she's 39
2006-09-20 03:51:59 · update #2
I'm 34 she's 39
2006-09-20 03:52:07 · update #3
Your sister seems to have issues with you personally. Not that it's your fault. But it appears to me she has some sort of resentment towards you and feels you're a know it all and she wants to branch out and be her own person without any feedback from you.
I would just sit back a minute and tell her, "I'm feeling frusterated with our constant bickering, I feel I'm trying to help you by giving advice to you that you refuse to take, however I'm going to respect the fact you don't want to hear it and want to live your life independantly of me. Just know that I love you and I will be there for you when you make the mistakes you feel you need to make and when you're ready for advice just let me know and I'll be happy to help you in anyway I can"
2006-09-20 03:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by Heather S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Girl, it Looks like You have answered your own question. Maybe the two of you need some time alone.
Maybe you should ask her to go out with you and have lunch, or go somewhere the two of you can just talk and get to know each other. Ask her advice about things, include her in your plans once in awhile, let her see that you are a caring person, who wants to be a part of her life. Is it possible, that she still sees you as her little kid sister? Make the effort, to show her who you really are and that you are worthy of her time. Don't argue with her over things that are of no importance. I think some time alone, would be worth your time, as far as your relationship with your sister. Good Luck!
2006-09-20 04:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now you know how she is, so act accordingly, just be cordial to her, speak, and just general conversation, you seem more mature then she is. One day she is going to be sorry, for missing out on having fun with her baby sister!! Right now she thinks she is a know it all, and don't really know nothing. (smile) but like all the rest, she will find out the hard way. she will learn from her bad mistakes. So you hang in their, stay out of her way, because you seem to have it all together!!
2006-09-20 04:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a younger sister as well, i have learned it's a sibling thing. believe it or not but older sibling r jealous. no matter how old they git. u probibly have been there for her alot in yalls live's, i have 2 older sister, and they really don't talk to me, i have always figered it was becouse they never expected me to do as well as i have in my life.only when they need me. just let her be, and one day she will get a reality check, hopefully.
2006-09-20 03:52:33 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you meant get along with your sister not alone. Anyway lots of sisters don't get along I have 4 and they don't talk anymore. Mike
2006-09-20 03:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE JEALOUSY I THINK SHE NEEDS TO GROW UP THOUGH MY PERSONAL OPINION
2006-09-20 03:46:52 · answer #6 · answered by lita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we need to know ages.
2006-09-20 03:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell here you feel
2006-09-20 03:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋