2006-09-20 03:34:50 · 6 answers · asked by SpicyK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Take him to a Alanon meeting...It's meetings that deal with the people that have a" alcoholic or drug user in their live"...How to cope and learning tools. how to brake being a codependent to the user... Could help you too! Best wishes to you & your family... Thanks
2006-09-20 03:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by pitterpatter47 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My father did the same thing w/my bro. Your father needs to realize by enabling is a slap in your face. She does wrong but gets rewards for her problems. The best way for him to help her is tough love and thats hard for a parent. Parents dont want to realize they are helping their kids but they feel so bad for them and dont want to lose them. In the long run they will. Since your the one who sees this alot clearer, you get some professional advice and approach your parents. Research and get some info. and show this to them. Ask them to get some help on how to deal w/this for you. They can do this one thing for you if they are so willing to help her.
2006-09-20 10:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question, I am in a similar position. You need to be more specific.
2006-09-20 10:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by melodyzsong214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he has a good suit to wear to her funeral? Sounds harsh but don't you think you would get his attention?
2006-09-20 10:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave home and forget about then, they can only help themselfs. Mike
2006-09-20 10:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skin him alive !
2006-09-21 08:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by scotsman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋